What If All Of US Hate Kids?

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1 year ago

I read a post in noise. cash that she hates kids, not hating but the responsibility over it. I respect her views and opinions regarding this matter because even me sometimes, I cannot stand kids' tantrums and everything. Having kids is challenging, especially when they get sick. They will test our limits, but they will bring out strength we never thought we had.

Having kids means less time to look out for ourselves, especially for mothers. This is why other women prefer to have dogs over kids. Aside from the endless responsibility of having kids, they are expensive too. From the time of pregnancy until whenever they can stand on their own, parents keep spending money for them. For shelter, clothing, food, health, and education.

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I saw this meme on Facebook and it made me laugh, indeed living life without kids is a burden-free life. Just look at turtles, they live longer because they don't watch their kids out after hatching, Lol. There are a lot of comments on this post, some are too serious and some understand it's just for fun.

Well, that's their nature, turtles can live and survive on their own after hatching. While humans are not. We came to the world clueless and vulnerable, we don't have a shell on us so we need care and guidance to grow up.

What if all of us hate kids?

What if all of us don't like kids? Who will inherit the Earth? Aliens? It is biblical that we should multiply because nobody will run the world if there is no next generation.

If you know Japan has a declining birth rate and according to Elon Musk Japan will be lost after several years in the future if they can't find solutions to their problem. There is no other generation to carry on their race. Not because Japanese hate kids, but according to some Japanese people are prone to depression, and coupling count drops as well. If you read more about Japan declining birth rate, the number one reason is they don't do sex.. and that more women chase their careers over marrying.

And it's so pity that Japan will be lost because they are one of the most innovative countries when it comes to technology. The world needs their talents and because old people outnumbered the young generation, who will inherit their legacy?

Having kids is not just for the sake, someone will take care of us when we get old.

That's not the purpose of it at all. If you look at today's situation, elder people are sent to a home for the aged if the family can afford to pay for it. If not, they will be taken for granted. Some children will take care of their parents when they're old but not like how parents look out for their children. There's even a saying “A mother can take care of 5 children or more but those five cannot take care of one mother at all.”

It is biblical that we should honor our parents so we can live longer, but not all understand it.

The purpose of multiplying the human race is to carry on the race. It is not all about us, it is more than that. We are also responsible to continue the cycle, it's our responsibility as a citizen to carry on to the next generation.

I even read in Genesis 38:8-10

Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise offspring for your brother.” But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the Lord put him to death also.

Source: www.biblegateway.com

That a man was put to death because he pulls out. He doesn't want to impregnate the woman but God put him to death because it is against His command “Go To The World & Multiply” but that was in the old testament when the world is not crowded yet. Now, I think it's more like a sin if you keep producing babies but cannot sustain their needs.

The new generation is getting weaker and wicked, more and more young people are depressed and have self-interest only, so maybe in the next generation.. the human race will eventually vanish! If humans will not be responsible enough to guide and reproduce the new generation.

And aliens will invade Earth. Do you believe in aliens? I do, just like how I believe there is God. I even believe what I cannot see, what more aliens that show some signs :D

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In real life, I adored kids talaga, Ate. And one way to prove it is through Zavina who grows with us na~ but may times lang talaga na napapagalitan ko s'ya kapag super pasaway. Pero at the end, ako din 'yung nagi-guilty then will make suyo na sa kaniya after. Normal lang naman 'to hano? Hihi. Di ko s'ya anak pero ginagastusan ko. 🙈

That's also why nasasabi ko kay Mama na di na ako mag-aanak. Ang hirap kasi ay~ napupuyat din ako kahit in the first place, di ko naman s'ya anak. Well, lumaki kasing maka-Ate Bes (me) eh. Hoho

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1 year ago

Kaya nga po lagi nilang sinasabi noon na kabataan ang pag asa ng bayan kaya nagpoproduce lang ng produce ng mga babies ang mga tao. Pero ngayon po parang yung mga kabataan na po ang problema mismo eh hehehe. Pero still parang need pa rin po talaga nating magparami para sa kinabukasan.

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1 year ago

Natatawa ko habang binabasa to Eyb. Hayyys. Lalo Yung mga last part. Ayaw ko nalang magtalk agui. Pero as a mother totoo Yun. Once na may anak kana Yung buhay mo ang Hindi nalang para sayo.

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1 year ago

Oo nga wala na nga freedom pag may anak na 🤣 🤣 sa totoo lang natatawa ako habang nagsusulat dito kasi papuntang alien na ang usapan talaga eh. 🤣

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To have children is to lose freedom. As long as children are born with this in mind, no one has the right to throw a tantrum. Having a child is a choice. We all know how a child comes into the world, if it is brought into the world, they will take care of it!

I don't have children because I don't feel ready for that responsibility yet! These are purely preferences and if wasted semen is a sin, we are sinners as all men! :))

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Yeah, that's true. I understand others preference too because I myself understand the burden of becoming parents is really overwhelming, based on experience.

Hahahaha that is why, I said.. nowadays I think it is more of a sin if one keep producing babies but cannot sustain their needs 🤣🤣

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1 year ago

Having kids is a lot of responsibility... I agree. The tantrum alone can meet one on a bad day hahahaha... One can't be fully ready or prepared for it.

That quote you shared above is so deep... A mother can take care of 5 children but in this world we live in, those 5 can't successfully take care of that one mother... It's deep, Eby... So deep...

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1 year ago

Hahaha yeah, kids tantrums traumatize others not to have kids anymore 🤣🤣🤣

Yeah, sad truth. Especially when those 5 children have their own lives already and have their own family too.. taking care of the parents is less priority, this is why partner should stick to each other and never rely on their children because it is biblical that once a man got married they will leave their parents and you can never oblige them anymore to take care of their parents 24/7 when they're too old due to priorities in life.

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🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂 a lot of people have said they won't have children based on what they have seen and even the extra attention and responsibilities 😂😂🤣

It's really important for partners to stick together and not create friction because the children will leave and all they have is themselves.

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1 year ago

Those who have kids are so blessed while some are longing to have one at least but to no avail.

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1 year ago

Yeah, some are longing to have kids while others don't like it for real.. people have different preference in life indeed.

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1 year ago

I was having this conversation with a friend yesterday when how motherhood seems so scary sometimes cos kids are so needy and disturbing. Whilst we all could use the rest, a world without kids would be boring tho😁

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1 year ago

Exactly, coz even though kids most of the time is annoying they bring unexplainable joy and light to the family and to the world of course.

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1 year ago

True words!

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1 year ago

sometimes talaga gusto nalng natin na magpakalayo from the responsibilities but our children bring unexplainable joy... so worth it na lahat ng pagod hehe kaya i understand din yung iba na ayaw ng anak...

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1 year ago

Kaya nga sis...yung pagod lahat worth it pa rin naman lahat. Di lang talaga maka relate ang iba kasi they just picture out the hard part.

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1 year ago

totoo..but for sure if anjan na wala na silang magagawa but to love it! hehe

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1 year ago

Ako mamsh sa totoo hindi talaga ako mahilig sa bata di ko alam kung bakit pero dili mean hate ko sila. Ang akin di ako mahilig ma'am pero nagbago lahat nung pamangkin na ako. Ang hilig ko na sa bata now.

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1 year ago

Iba kasi pag sarili mo nang kadugo ang bata.. mamahalin mo rin talaga kahit di ka pa mahilig nang bata tulad ko di rin naman talaga ako sobrang hilig sa bata.

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1 year ago

Same pala tayo maam eybyoung pero nagbabago pala ma'am nuh.

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1 year ago

Having kids is blessing for a couple, but they should be more responsible towards their upbringing, because next generation depends upon them. I really can't understand the people who Hates kids, as they are pure and lovely.

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1 year ago

Dahil dito parang gusto ko na mag anak at manirahan sa Japan, magadagdag ako ng magadagdag para sa population haha charizzz. Naka focus nalamg ata buhay ng iba dun sa manga at anime ee.

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1 year ago

Hahaha maigi pa nga yun.. madagdagan man lang birthrate nang Japan 🤣 gora na! Next generation puro pangit na mga Manga at anime nang Japan kasi nangamatay na yung magagaling 🤣🤣

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1 year ago

Hahahaha sana easy lang mag migrate ahaha hanap muna ako ng Japanese na guato mag anak ng madami hahaha

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1 year ago

Hahaha pero hirap kasi e change mindset nang mga Japanese din di basta basta nagpapadami nang anak dahil sa economic status.

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1 year ago

Yon nga baka ugatin kana kaka seduce to add more kids pwro di pa rin affected hahahanep yaan

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1 year ago

Well said! There are more to having a kid, if we all decides not to have one then there is nothing to call next generation. We'll done.

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1 year ago

Yeah, that's the sole purpose.

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1 year ago

Haha. Bet ko to. Bet ko din yung meme. Natawa ako bigla.

Sa Japan daw talaga, puro work nasa utak nila kaya nga ang iba, naghahire na lang ng ka cuddle sa Japan or mag hired ng gf/bf for a day. Ganun sila ka busy sa buhay na yung iba di na naghahanap ng jowa kay wala na ring ma jowa yung iba. Sayang naman if dumating ang panahon na Late na nila ma realize ito.

Pero wag ka mag aalala dahil masi save pa rin ang human race dahil sa mga Pinoy. Naka unli ang mga pinoy pag dating sa baby-making. Hehe

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1 year ago

Hahahahhaa walang wala kasi ang utak nang Pinoy sa Japanese yun ang sayang 🤣 kaya nga puro sila workaholic eh.. tas pag na depress suicide na lang agad 🤦

Natawa nga ako sa meme na yan eh, totoo din kasi 🤣

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