Dating a deceiver

Dating is good but to experience true love, you must fall in love with wisdom. Love is not wicked but most love are deceitful, because not everyone you fall for is ready to catch you. Alot of people out there are just ready to use you.

It's advisable to watch People's intentions, character and appearance. Know exactly where you are landing before you fall for that person. Even if you are eager to settle down this year, does not mean "I will marry you"

There are different signs to know a deceiver

• Some will come saying I want us to be initiate, of course their understanding of intimacy is romance, nude picture and sex.

• They are selfish and self centered. It's always about them.

• Most times they look like what you are praying for, but is the reserve.

• Ask them about their plans for the relationship and the answer will be "let's see how it goes". They are not ready to define the relationship but they will fake commitment to use you.

Ways not to get used or to be decieve

Put every love to test before giving your heart. Control your feelings, when intention has not been made known to you. Warning: Sex is not intimacy, sex is not love, close your legs and you will know exactly what they are looking for.

Tell him to go and see your people and see if they will stay, is another way to know if his serious.

Prayer's will reveal to you what emotions can not tell you. But don't use prayers where common sense is needed.

Do not allow anybody to break your heart, when you see the signs, don't be the last to leave.