Some people don’t want true love anymore, but want legitimate children!

More and more trends come and normal begins to fade. They will always be unusual in the eyes of everyone. Do you know that there are people nowadays don’t really want true love, yet they wanted to build their own family? They don’t want to get married yet they want children, they just want to be like what they wanted, without anyone who could judge or leave them apart, they just wanted to be alone, raise their own kid and be the greatest parent, yet they don’t want a love and partner.

I thought that this kind of thinking will be only in the field of novels and stories, that there really are people who just become single parents. Back then when society didn't yet understand the concept of solo parents, single mom or dad are easily getting points of discriminations. Labelled them as lonely parents for they were just alone, but the more time and untold stories from a real person that gets the view where being a single parent wasn’t a bad thing, it's much more independent actually.

It could be associated with the stigma that men should work and women should take care of the child. Some people say it's a messy and difficult job for a mother to raise a child of her own.

But now, more and more women and men prefer to be single parents. Where they just want a child of their own, instead of having a partner they could spend the love on their children. Well honestly it is very difficult to look for a decent partner today, some might support me other won't by telling that even we were married it wont guaranteed that they will stays with you in your side, it won't give the 100% rate that they will really be a good father or mother to your child.

They were afraid that someday they will be left behind, maybe it came from their parents' experience or some more valid reasons.

In-vitro fertilisation is sounding this past year. Where artificially humans could be fertile deliver their child even without a intercourse happened. Some even pay for surrogate mothers just to gain the process of inoculations, will this be another new normal?.

I think yes it will be.

What is happening right now could result in more and more people thinking of indepence not the traditional one.

The elders will tell you to get married because you need family, which was naturally declining right now. The stigma where they talked that if something happened there will be someone that will take care of us, that’s the first investment we give to our childreds. We wanted to have a family. For the time to come we won't be alone surviving on our own.

Well some people are much more aware of that idea, so they just wanted a child of their own.

Am I talking to those introverts?

I think yes and somehow no, well others will and might be not.

Why did people want just to become a solo parent?

I think because of what is happening these days, influenced by social media and experience triggering others.

Do you know that it was really depressing to be left behind by their partner? I had this cousin who was really close to me and she mentioned all the things she's been through with her husband. In the beginning we never think that their relationship will ended up in such broke-up they were good in all the terms and even married twice, for they been married at teen age and the re married again just years passed from now, but because of financial the guy leave and promised just to woked, yet it wasn’t that happened, he thinks that leaving his wife and child will blessed him as single man again, even changing his facebook status to single.

That’s just an ordinary story where people show how miserable life is. That’s why we can't really judge certain people who choose not to have true love instead just a child of their own.

It's happening as normal these days, that’s the fact. And the society now understands what is happening, that’s the great part of new technology merly social media, where people could voice out what were the experiences, the chaledged and all the things that needed attention. This is a new era of acceptance for sure.

Well for me, I might not. Also I was just curious as always but I do also plan ahead. I wanted a complete family with a wife and childrens, yet if something happened and that involved trust no hesitation to leave as a solo parent lol.

Sometimes that could be a deal, let's accept the concept that most of us now don’t look for true love but family instead. Some will understand others will accept that won't but at the end of the day, we shall be a person who must start.

I admired those solo appearances, especially mother, the bravery they had is exceptional and must be really labelled a hero, thanks for reading…