In the generation where most people now know how the internet works, they become anxious about everything. An era of people where we get easily annoyed when the internet connection is logging when the electricity has been cut off- meant that our gadget soon drained its battery meant a terrifying return. But the cynicism of the internet is about to unfold. People silently judge themselves; teenagers are too jealous of others for they gain more from their social stories; people think they are left behind because they had a life different from others. A severe problem that most results in loss of focus, serious self-degrading, and others leading to killing themselves.
Do you know that the most difficult enemy to defeat is ourselves?.
Let's all be honest that we loved to judge ourselves; no one had ever compared themselves to others; once or many times, you wondered why another life was so different from you, why people at your age had gained too much, and you're not. There will always be a question that hangs in our heads, pointing us to self-judgment.
Self-judgment is a normal thing, and the nature of our behavior is to react to others' stories, but sometimes it's too much. People stranded in the phase often didn't realize that they were too much toxic to people. They thought they were behind and felt they were full of uncertain things in life.
We judge ourselves that even though we make all the effort, it feels like we were not enough; the work we do total effort is still lacking. That comes where we surrendered and imagined this wouldn't work; this wasn't for us—the times when we found ourselves longing and losing interest. We lost track because we judged too much, thinking other people had already won.
Is that still normal?
I guessed so; because sometimes I feel the same, like allowing others to win and accept my defeat.
As I said, self-judgment is most in the cynicism of the internet dark truth of the computers. When people like to admire others, they are always notified in a post of people they follow, the glamorous life of people that live in a clean house; full of extravagant things. Where they found themselves judging the way they looked. Most teenagers often lied to their parents for them to buy the dress that threads; some are willing to do everything even though it's illegal to be on the cable.
The dark underneath of this issue is that; most people, even influencers, also have fake life, whereas, behind the glamour, there is a dark content.
It's not only for those celebrities we follow and like, nor love their stories. It also happened to the people of my generation who becomes in the middle of being paranoid they are left behind.
Even friendship had been gone because of jealousy of others; they judge themselves according to what they don't have and what the other parties are portraying. It's a new car, phone, and anything that captures and is pleasing in the eyes. We judge why they owned things like that, and we were not? But we don't look on the brighter side.
We don't know how they got that; the things you jealous and judge yourself because it feels like they owned the fastest phone 5G or 6G you hold 2G or 3G we don't know what they been to get that; legal or illegal? We judge ourselves only to afford a low-class gadget, but we pay it cash or once, and we get jealous of the people who paid in with credit cards, loans, and installments.
I don't give the idea of paying for this material in slow time is terrible; but the thing is that we get jealous of others not realizing how they get that, and how you got your own, judge ourselves for not afford to have those kinds, yet other are stressed when bills are in due.
Within my generation and the coming out of the millennial era, most untold stories are primarily heard; people whose lives was fake life under the glamour for the sake of fame, a relationship that thought perfect but ended up just being nice for the sake of their names in sociality. A lot more untold reality of generations; where people think it's good in people's eyes.
Before judging ourselves, why and why not we don't own such things as others; eat the food the mukbang feast under the camera; wear the beauty product of wealthy people.
Self-judgment and insecurities are just diverting us from our goals; jealousy is a kind of evil that wants us to remain on the low side. We shall look closely; at the way we judge ourselves. The looks, what we wear, and how we become our own. That's how the mystery is; loving ourselves and don't judge too quickly.
They said they don't judge a book by its cover; nowadays, its was updated. Don't just a book by its cover. Also, you must read even half of it. So you will know if that was a wort of good or bad judgment.
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I think we are all experiencing that. Yung may doubt kana sa sarili mo because of what other people say and do. It is easy to say na "hayaan mo sila," but deep down, napapaisip rin talaga tayo about what's wrong with us.