Deux Feb-Ibig: Falling in love with yourself is not a trap but revenge.

The dwelling for a love is something under the edge of a blue moon. If loving someone causes us just nothing but heartbreak and hurt, then it might be the way that we just find love for ourselves. Peace of mind, worries and things that will make you more interested to explore, do things that will make you happy. It's not a trap, don’t think how others mind you, enjoy life like you will end tomorrow.

Do you know the secret of a happy life? Best work environment and clean surroundings? worry less nature and living in the world full of best things?. That is becoming happy and not comparing your achievement to others. Loving what you were doing and making changes still.

Changes happened when we loved ourselves. That is the best thing to do when you think all the people around us were seeking nothing but the wrong things inside. looking for anything that will hurt us. The secret they had is that they loved seeing us miserable, problematic and more confused. And the best revenge is to show them that no matter how they ruin things in our life, they fail for we are still happy. That makes them sad for sure, seeing you living a wonderful life.

It's not too late and never has been too late to change. That’s what I learned from the past years. I know I changes a lot, thinking maturely and moving more ready for everything. The things that will come across, will just fine, the problem will always have the solution, life is like a mountain that was tall enough that always shower us with a crack rock of challenges, hot melted lava of problems or like the Himalayan that will provide us icy and snows that will make us cold.

When we think about revenge, negatives are always thought of. I disagree with that. Other people will tell you revenge will always be the bad, insight of religion and humanity. But as days pass, we learn more things about revenge. We could be prevented even we do nothing to them, we could also irritate them by just showing what was happening to us, we could confuse those eyes that always look at the bad side not in anything else.

Loving ourselves is the best payback, it's not a trap for we are the bait not the prey anymore. Predators will do anything to kill us inside, challenge us so our self will defeat nature inside. They will become the predator that traps us in a hole seeing us living happy and successful. At the end of the day, they are the one that was clearly defeated, not us.

Imagine how you see their face when they try to irritate you by telling you we were poor and we will have nothing waiting for us in the future, yet years later they will see that you are more successful than them? karma revenged for you, because no matter how bad they say, how little they saw you, you just go in the track. Not minding them but they give you more reason to love yourself if your own relatives didn’t love you.

That’s happened every time to different people, so if you were one that experienced this right now. Loving yourself is revenge.

Another thing is that someone is always comparing you to others, I really hate that part too. Comparison of negative and positive. There will always be people that will compare you to others, then you alone have to think the same comparison too, why do they really have that and you do not? You started to copy them.

That’s the mindset you must change before it is too late. The more we compare others, the more we hate ourselves. That’s happened to many teenagers, and I could say it was normal for I was also that person who experienced that. We began to hate ourselves, admire others yet we let down and drown our own persona.

Then you will find out that loving and letting yourself do things that you loved and what the limit you had is more than rather than being stressed by those comparisons.

That might be the secret that I'm still here, I am never jealous of anyone because of their articles achievement. From the starting line until I had what I got now. The more I compare myself, that’s a trap for me. Focus on other issues is like digging our own graveyard. Someday you will trap by comparisons.

Well, we had different kinds of thinking and strategy, but loving your own work without any comparison is also revenge. When people say your work is messy enough but you love doing it you will find a way to change.

We called it sweet vengeance.

Hate is the devil. It's normal to hate ourselves because we are just normal and human. But the more hate we absorb the more devils will just enter our minds might be one of them tells you to do bad things, others will say you need to hate yourself, but in the darkness, there will always be a light. Angel Tells us to be happy, be contented, and just focus on ourselves because at the end of the day. People who do bad things will get their Karma, sooner or later.

So I conclude that loving yourself is the sweetest revenge at all, and makes life happy because karma, good or bad, is always on its way. Thanks for reading.

NOTE: This is a rush, I had two appointments to attend today so bear with errors and missing one, haha.