Perspective in life

Most arguments from every person are caused by different perspectives in life, the unwanted quarrel starts when both partners have different beliefs, they see things differently than what the other party would be, disagreement occurs in every country when they both have a different point of view. " you can't blame both parties as they stand to their own frame of reference, its what they believe and its what they think is right, war of words is most common all over the world even kids fight, the wrangle of their emotions, because the other kid is being guided differently from the other kid, they fight for what they think is right, nor the other party's standpoint, perspective in life can start arguments, and words are a very deadly weapon in every argument when used wrongly to the other party.

"The most common quarrels I experience"

• Lovers Arguments are the most common thing that happens, the argument in a relationship occurs when both parties depend on their beliefs, to stand a point about whether it's right or not as long as that's what they stand to defend, just a set of example, my partner is raised in a family where they are raised to be spoiled they can wake up late, they can easily avoid chores by saying no, their mothers scolded them by words, they are used to that thing and they just ignore those words, different from my experience, my mother is strict, as a teacher she raised me well, I admit I get hit sometimes by a "hanger" broomstick" pinch in the stomach, grab my hair, and I know it's harsh but my mother did what is right, words can't be enough to discipline a hard-headed kid, and I think it's effective as I grew responsible, I wash my own clothes, I know how to cook, I do my chores and I wake up early in the morning. There are times I tell her she's being too lazy, the environment is different from now, you have a husband and a daughter, and you need to learn to be responsible far from what you are raised.
  there are times I hurt her feelings with my choice of words, that's why when you start being aggressive, you need to choose your words wisely.

How to avoid quarrels?

we need to open our minds, just relax listen to them and think of our actions, or else we might look aggressive, that's why sometimes we need to "keep calm" or else we might regret things that we said that are not necessary.

The photos I might share can be used to explain figuratively the different views and perspectives that changed the way they believed.

People who think they are on top of everything may look at things negatively from below, just like what you see in the photo, it looks negative, right?

while people on the side, who look straightforward at things aggressively, they always fight for the things they believe because that's what they are made of, and that's what they chose to believe just like how you see a punctuation mark on the photo.

for those people who always outlook things, thinking differently from others, who always misinterpret things, who always fight for the things they aren't sure if its worth fighting for, who always catch the bait, band wagons.

Have you realized the 3 photos attached above ? all attached photos are just 3 different perspective of a question mark photo, dont waste your time telling those people above that what you see is question mark because they will always insist negativity because what they see is negative sign, dont waste your time telling other people you see a photo of question mark if they are very aggressive and telling you what they see is punctuation mark, because we have different beliefs, we dont need to argue for what we believe, we dont have different belief but we just staring in the same picture with different perspectives.

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