The subject "marriage" for those who are yet to understand how vast it is in handling, is really indeed vast to exhaust its dealing.
It's a long-term and a lifetime project,
From being a loving/lovely and caring partner, to being a loving /lovely and caring parents, it's really a good hard work that requires good and great sense of reasoning in handling any situations that may arise in it.
The caring part, before going too far, by considering the first stage before marriage, which I'll term courting or dating, depending on individual aspect of its view, goes beyond money aspect alone, yet the caring must vent towards it too, because it's part of what makes life, in every ramifications.
Dating or Courting is not for pleasure exploration alone, it's not a "let's enjoy ourselves and part ways" matter, which is why any dating relationship that doesn't have marriage in view, is nothing but a waste of time.
Knowing who one will share his or her life with matters, and that's the exploration that really matters!
It's actually not possible to know fully what one's partner is full of, but the traces of it can't be hidden.
Those traces must be studied!
Don't fall into the trap of being with stingy, self centered and nonchalant partner, don't think it twice if the partner is not ready to change!
You must know how responsible the partner is, before venturing into considering the hands of the partner for marriage!
To man side,
No matter how richly your partner is more than you, don't ever try to jealously kill her vision, and that shouldn't stop you from being responsible towards the care of her, on both vision and responsibilities, in every facets, as a manly duty, even over the children to come.
If it's stipends you are getting, try to stay responsive to the responsibilities, it's a well come of man towards His partner, and she'll, and must only continue to play her part as an help meet. However, that mustn't lead to pride from her against you, never allow that by calling her attention to it, because that may stir up negative emotional response towards her, such can trigger war.
The traces can be known during the journey of courtship or dating.
Don't be a lazy man that'll squander every assets she's getting!
Don't be a liability!
Don't marry whom won't be able to trust you with her asset!
If you notice a hidden secret from her concerning any matters, ask her why, but if she remain adamant towards denying, let her be!
If you are stingy, self centered, be yourself and live your life alone!
Don't marry vision killer!
To woman side,
Irrespective of how richly you're, above or below your partner, don't ever act what will stir up negative actions towards you from Him, don't hide if you trust Him.
Don't be with whom you won't be able to trust, if it'll lead to you hiding how richly you are!
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Play your part by showing interest in whatever he do, even if it's stipends he's getting from it!
Don't let ego ruin the relationship for you by you!
I repeat, if experiences you've witnessed, be it from anyone is giving you unnecessary caution towards your partner, better stay single and live your life single.
Don't marry whom you will be hiding your assets from.
Don't marry a liability!
Don't marry someone that seeks pleasure over responsibility!
A choice made will affect your life in every aspect forever!
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Marriage should never be rushed into, once in there is no turning back, before going into marriage, you need to be sure of your partner