Your simplest asset can be someone else's biggest dream...
Greetings, how are you my dear friends and family? I hope you are well, and the days of the week so far have been full of blessings and good happens for you. I want to thank my dear supporters for their constant support. Thank you for always believing in me, so that I can be by your side on my read cash journey so far. Your presence is a great blessing to me, and I always thank God for that. Today I wanted to talk about some moments and properties in our lives, that may have become normal for us to repeat it and use it daily, but even a one-minute experience it may be a wish for someone else. I want to talk a little about my husband's cousin her name is Linda. She is now a girl of about 40 years old, and has been married and divorced three times. To me and my husband and her family, she is a very kind, simple, and pure-minded girl, but in all her three marriages she has been somehow driven away by her husband, and they have ended up divorced. All I know about her last marriage that I was in my husband's family was that her husband was a boy almost his own age, living in England. This boy's sister was Linda's friend, and she makes the two get married. Linda's husband bought her a house with full furniture in our town, and for now she was supposed to be close to her mother-in-law and father-in-law. Linda had a good relationship with her husband's family in the beginning, but I don't know what happened, as her relationship with her husband's family got worse and worse. Until, almost two years after their marriage, her mother-in-law called her son, who was still in England, and asked him to divorce Linda, and the boy divorced Linda remotely without any resistance because of his mother's words. Linda without taking any part of her life with her husband, was forced to leave this life again and go to her mother and father's house. Even Linda had taken care of a puppy during these two years, but in order to go to her mother's house, she even had to separate from the dog that was very dependent on it. We were all very sad about what happened to her in her marriage. After a period of depression, Linda resurfaced, and resuming her sewing career. She is a very skilled tailor, to the extent that the clothes she sews are equal to those of foreign brands, and no one notices that they are sewn by a simple tailor.
I remember a month ago when I ordered a dress to her to sew for me, and to determine the model of this dress, I told her to let me consult with my husband. She told me to "appreciate your husband, that even the way you dress is important to him. And even comments on the model of your dress." While it seems to me that asking my husband how I dress is always a daily routine and a habit, but it was a dream for her to have a husband who would comment on the way she dress. Last week, when my husband's family was our guests, Linda was at our party. When she came to the kitchen after dinner to help me, I asked her to leave. And in response I told her, I will tidy the kitchen with my husband after the party is over. She repeated the same thing, "appreciating that you have a husband who is always by your side". I was very impressed with her words. At the same time, I am very sad for her, who, after experiencing three failed marriages, regrets such simple things in life. Now I know that I must appreciate my husband and my married life, and even more, I must appreciate all I have. Because today my simplest asset can be a great regret for many other people... *****Lead image source***** https://pin.it/6J040Az
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This is a serious lesson for everyone to learn how to appreciate even the smallest of the things in their house.. .awesome post
Thank you very much my dear... 🤗 Exactly, the least important moments in our lives or our smallest possessions can be a great wish for someone else.
Linda makes me sad. She must be depressed because of how things have turned out for her; I hope she may still find happiness without spouses who constantly harm her and do not value her.
Thank you very much my friend, she's exactly depressed. As you said, she must be able to find happiness alone. Because so far all the men who have entered her life have harmed her.
So sorry for Linda my dear Ellen. She can meet soon the right person to be with her and she will not experience her past 3 failed marriage.
I also hope my dear Jean, unfortunately she doesn't like to be alone, I hope she can find someone soon, who will stay with her forever.
It's not easy to be alone. Time will come for her, soon.. I'll pray for that.
This article is perfect to make you feel grateful for what you have, that many times we value it late, there is a saying that I love and it is "Do not give life reasons to complain"
What a beautiful and meaningful saying. Exactly dear Maria, life can be beautiful, if we appreciate what we have.
Ohh sorry to hear that and love and care for Linda.
Many thanks my dear friend, I appreciate you, and glad to see you, good luck...
Linda's story is really touching, I hope she heals soon, I can't imagine what it means to be divorced three times... Ellen dearest, you're right... One's simplest asset is someone else's biggest dream... It's best when one appreciates what one has.
Exactly, dear Ella, at these times we appreciate what we have more. Linda's experiences of her married life were very bitter and painful.
I really feel for Linda. Some people are not just lucky in marriage, not that they are bad. Things just happens
Exactly dear Bilqees, we all believe that she was really unlucky in her marriages.
I feel sad for Linda. By the way she reminded you to appreciate your husband was obvious that she didn't got a chance to appreciate her husband. I also don't understand why does her husband divorce her after the mother order it to him, it seems like she isn't a grow old man yet to make the decision for his own family. However sometimes we don't need to explain our side, hopefully Linda woud still be happy for her own. And it was indeed important to appreciate our love ones every day as we don't know what tomorrow may come. It would be better to tell them always than to regret that we didn't appreciate them when they are still with us.
Exactly dear Garreth, we should be grateful for their existence and always express our love and affection for them. Because many regret this simple life of ours. It was exactly shocking to us how the boy listened to his mother, and even divorced her without asking for an explanation or talking to Linda, and trying to mend their relationship.
Oh Im sad for Linda but I'm also gappy knowing that she moved on and focused on her skills or talent which is sewing. Yes you're right, we have different advantages in life, we have different gifts. We are wishing to have something like in someone but also someone is wishing to have something what we have. So let's be thankful for what we have.
You said beautifully my friend, we wish to have what others have, and others wish to have what we have. I am very happy to meet you dear, good luck... ☺️
Thats the reality of life because sometimes we are not yet contented on what we have.