I'm Getting Married!💍

February 25, 2025

Four years ago, I wasn't a believer of love and relationships. Back then, all I knew was that all guys are the same. They will tell you they like you. They will make you fall for them. And the last thing you know, you're already ghosted.

All the guys I got to know were like that. The guys my age treated it as if it was all just about "fun" and "games".

This made me think that "love" and "relationship" were something that I wouldn't want for myself.

My heart is too fragile that I didn't want to get hurt so I avoided all the guys who wanted to come close to me. I shut all doors. I drove people away from me.

Then you came unexpectedly. I have to be honest, I didn't like you at first. You were too full of yourself. You had vices. You drink. You smoke. You were the perfect opposite of my ideal man.

But when you came, you brought with you not sweet promises but with bitter truths. You were consistent with your actions. You would call and text me day and night just to make sure that I'm okay. You were too busy but you made sure that you always have time for me.

You were committed to winning my heart even if you knew that I was not ready for a relationship. You understood I had "trust issues" and that I somehow built "walls" to guard myself against heartbreak.

I knew to myself I was already falling in love with you. But I had to pray to God about you. I prayed to Him to give me just one sign if you were already the man He would give to me.

And so you won my heart.

As months pass by, I got to know you better. You learned to remove your bad habits not for me but for your own good. You became humble from being too proud. You were still consistent with your actions. You were not good with words but your actions spoke a thousand words.

Years pass. We were celebrating this thing called "love", from monthsaries to anniversaries. You would always make me feel special even if it's not Valentine's Day because, for you, love should be celebrated every day.

4 years being in a relationship, we have shared a fair share of secrets. We've built dreams and goals that we want to achieve in the future. We are each other's cheerleaders whenever each of us feels down and demotivated. We have created beautiful memories that will surely live on forever.

We fought but we made sure to always make up to each other. I would always be the reason why we fight but you were more understanding and I couldn't be more thankful for that.

You are a family-oriented, goal-driven, loving man any woman could ask for.

February 14 came and you wanted to go to the beach and watch the sunset together. We do this every year but this year was the most memorable of them all. You were looking into my eyes and asked a question. Teary-eyed, I said "Yes".

Author's Note: All I can say is, "SANA ALL!". Charot. 😂😂🤣🤣