Sometimes you have to break your way out of it

There comes a moment in our life( in all of our lives) when we start questioning ourselves.

Questions like, 

If God, our creator, exists, then why? 

1. Why are we continuously in pain? Why can't everything be just fine?

2. Why are we facing such difficulties?

3. Does God have any idea of what we are going through? And, if yes, then why is he ignoring us.

These; and many more questions like these always take over our minds whenever we are going through hard times. And can be frustrating at times.

Now here, a question arises that 

why this happens and how to overcome these kinds of situations.

Well, that's what is going to be our topic for today. 

So, let's Start,

Difficulties, whether we like them or not, are part of our life; 

No matter how much we try to avoid them, In the end, they will find us one way or another. 

In other words, we can't stop them. What we can do is to face them patiently and keep hoping for the best.

Coming towards the part "why we face difficulties?".

Ans: Well, if you have a closer look at the world, you will see that everything in this world has its opposite. For instance, Day for the night, Good for the bad, Sadness for the happiness, and similarly, suffering for the joy. 

And without one, the other loses its significance; That's why to have joy and happiness in your life, you will have to suffer and face difficulties as well. But remember, they aren't there to break you apart; they are there to enhance the intensity of joy and happiness you will have.

In simple words, what I mean to say is that;

You won't value joy and happiness the way you should unless you face difficulties and hardships achieving it.

Now, if we conclude our discussion, till this point, it would be 

that difficulties, suffering and pain aren't just there to depress, discourage or demotivate you; All of these play a significant role in making you strong. Strong enough to face anything that comes your way.

Moving towards the next part 

Does God exist? And does he have any idea of what we are going through? And, if yes, then why is he ignoring us.

Well,

Calling him God means you believe that there exists a creator, and he knows what's going on with you; If that's the case, 

then questioning his existence doesn't make sense.

 And 

if you don't believe in his existence, 

then you shouldn't be calling him God in the first place.

I know, 

I know this so-called philosophy(explained above) isn't making sense right now, but, Let me clarify it.

I remember mentioning in one of my last articles( and if I didn't; Well, I am doing it now) that just because you are going through hard times doesn't mean God isn't there or is ignoring you. Think of it as maybe if he is testing you and wants you to make your way out of it( by yourself). 

In other words, if you know God is there, then it's better to be patient and have faith that he knows what to do; Instead of questioning his very existence.

Questioning and panicking whenever you encounter some problem expresses your weak personality and nature. So, try not to do that.

Basically, this part of the article is "pretty much" the same as was one of my previous articles, "Have some faith". You can visit it here.

https://read.cash/@DrPsycho/have-some-faith-5e1ca1ac

Conclusion:

Difficulties and suffering are part of our life. They teach us not to take anything for granted. Because anything we face(or go through) in this world has a purpose; maybe it isn't crystal clear at that very moment; 

but, later on, when you think about it,

You realize the "true" value and significance of your achievements.

And as for the second part,

If you believe there exists a God; then be patient, have faith in him; and try not to question him or his existence because it (kind of ) beats the whole concept of "Believing(faith).

So, friends, here it comes to an end. 

And, As usual, till the end, I wasn't sure where was I going and how was I going to conclude the whole conversation. But just by "Believing", I managed to end this endless stream of words.

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