Are You a Bully or the Bullied?

Let me ask you first fellas, do you know what "Bullying" really is? Have you ever been bullied or a bully one? I just remembered Nick Vujicic's public speaking which he put into words there that,"what if that someone you teases commits suicide?".That only phrase means a lot when we talk about bullying. Everyone think of it morelike a game, a funny doing which somehow makes you a big guy or something.

Let me tell you that bullying is a kind of murder which everybody don't know! They're just good at teasing yet they don't foresee what will happen to that someone you've bullied. You're killing that person roundabout perhaps if through physical battering or either way you're slowly killing him emotionally and mentally from your strong words which would make the victim feel so burdened and worst if it turn into emotional breakdown and that would trigger him to commit suicide!

You'll be the reason why he lost his dreams, why he lost his future, why his smile won't ever be seen again, why his family's just reminiscing him through his big framed picture and why there's a big tears falling from his mother's eyes.

Everyone of us delves in this kind of situation which we may think we're just as little as dust, we'll feel much pain, but don't let those voices tear your life apart! Don't let those voices makes you feel down in the dumps. Don't stay with it, because it's not your enemy who will defeat you! It's you, yourself! Listen to the other voice calling up your attention — the Faith! His words will surely give you motivation, a light that will guide you to the right path and he will lend his ears to you. Remember this everytime you encounter such,"Don't go to it, go through it."

And to the bullies, you know who you are, assess yourselves. Why am I a bully? What makes me a bully? Ask yourselves.

Bullies are also victims of emotional distress, it depends on the circumstances. Lend your ears to them, listen and understand probably they're going through something difficult in their lives. Be a helping hand to those who needed the most.