@DennMarc
Just unordinary day You are getting sick of your life because there's nothing new to do. It means your sense of adventure and curiosity is dying. I have experienced and noticed in previous month that what I did yesterday is the same today. Thus it happened everyday, until it becomes month. It became tiring to wake up early in the morning because you have nothing to look up for the whole day. You have no plans, no goals, no appointments and just nothing.
How can I improve my day? The answer is depends on what and how you see yourself. You have a lot things to do even you are at home. Yes, your house might be small but do not see a thing in its size. Improving your day means improving the quality of your life. Changing your perspectives is quite difficult at first because that's how you used to. However, without these changes your day and life will not change too. Just by looking at the mirror while you are combing your hair, fixing your clothes, brushing your teeth and quick peek at the mirror. How can you describe yourself? Ask yourself "Am I improving?", "Am I not willing to do something to change this situation of mine?". I tell you what, move now. You are becoming paralyzed gradually and it eats your creativity. The hidden artist within you is disappearing. A single push to work and get up from your humble bed is what I request to you. Look around you! What do you see? Are you contented having all that and telling yourself I'm okay with this. I have my family, my friends, my relatives, and my pets around me. No, don't think that way. Then how about you? What's filling you to be great when you wake up in the morning? I love to see you grow. I love to see you create unusual things that you haven't made in your entire life. Focus and start to be curious again like a child. Ask yourself "what are these things and how I can make one myself?". Start wondering again like you are running out of time. Can't you miss the old time when you are so passionate to work on something? That when you finished your work and so proud to tell others. I would love to see it again, and this time it's you! I'm still afraid to try new things. What would I do? It's okay to become afraid and nervous for things you will do in first time. I tell you what. The moment you break your own chain and feel the satisfying feelings inside you. It's gonna be awesome! Look around you and try something else. Try the sports you didn't play before because you are afraid of getting hit. Try the foods you didn't eat because you are afraid what will be taste like. Friend, you have only one, only one life to live. Don't waste your time in the side of darkness. Don't you miss the fun and laughter that makes your stomach hurts? Don't you miss the feeling of getting hype because you loved what you are doing? I want you to feel that again. Make your own unusual and unordinary day which is worth remembering. Your friends are waiting. Your kids are wating. Your husband or wife is waiting. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is waiting. Make something fun today. How can I start doing this unusual and unordinary day? Like what I've said awhile ago, it depends on how you view things. Changing your perspective first is the first step on creating your unordinary day. I know some of you cannot go outside today because of health restrictions. I know you cannot go to park to enjoy the view and have picnics. But you don't have to go outside just to create you own unordinary day. Take a sit and observe everyone in your home. Jot down their names and observe them one by one. Look at them closely and write what you see in your children, husband, wife, mother, father, cousins and whomever it is. At the end of the day, read what you write and analyze it. You will be surprised on how your family acts and does that day. You might discover something new and work on that. Perhaps in the past few days or weeks that you had an argument with them. Thinking why my family is so selfish to me. Why my family treating me this way? Why my family seems doesn't give attention to me anymore? Observe them and look closely how they intercept and make a conversation with you. They might be treating you that way because they have a great trust to you because you are responsible and grown man or woman now. You are not a kid anymore who used to lay down and watch television all day. Adulting has a sense of responsibility and that is totally normal. You are undergo in transitioning today. Question: Would you rather risk for unusual or settle for ordinary? I am curious on what your answer will be. I would love to read your response in the comment box below. Please like and comment if you like this article. Subscribe if you want to read moral life lessons and values daily. Appreciation Thank you my beloved sponsors for believing in me and to my articles. If you believe in me you can become my sponsor by clicking the sponsor block above. Lead image created in Canva Blog #8 2/3/22
22 comments
A very good article to read. Sometimes we are becoming too bored with the usual, ordinary day but it really is up to us if we want to make it something unordinary.
Thanks for appreciating my article. Yeah, why we would settle for ordinary if we can make it unordinary right?
Yes, I agree!
Most of the people now have the same thought as the start of the pandemic that we are just stuck doing the same thing every day. Me alone I felt the same way like I felt tired without doing anything haha, so that's made me more to think about doing something new. Tama all the points.
Yep, during the 1st wave of pandemic, we're like bored to death doing the same thing over and over. It's like your in prison and cannot go outside.
We should explore and try new things friend. We shouldn't be frighten because it will serve a help to us. If it's fails then it will be the lesson then if it is achieve, the better. We shouldn't stay at the one place. We must grow and figure a lot of things. We must intact in our minds that we must be productive. We must improve ourselves. I agree a lot my friend.
Exploring and discovering something new will be a great journey and it is like unfolding new chapter of your life. Isn't exciting when we are so happy doing what we love?
Yes that's true friend. Too much exciting for that my friend.
Sometimes we need to change our perspective in order to be able to try out new things, In the end we'd realise that changing our perspective and the way we view things will open us to better opportunities both now and in the future.
Well said! If we are so occupied with the same mindset everyday and we know that it's not working anymore then change. Thanks for this amazing response.
There is no such thing as a normal day. There are some days in our lives that are really unusual. Sometimes we need to change our lives. I applaud you for doing something new.
Oh thank you! Doing new things excite me the most especially when it was quite adventurous. Well, I think you should you do something new in your life.
Everytime tumitingin aki sa mirror, mata ko ahad napapansin ko xx
Haha, nakuha mo tawa ko dito. Kamusta naman yung mata mo? Nagshiny na ba?
Oo nagshashiny, lalo na if nagdaadrama ako tas mapadaan sa salamin e. Mapapatanong talaga akong ang ganda ng mata ko pero ang drama kobHAHAHAHA ayon dinako nagdadrama akse maganda parin ako kahit madrama HAHAHAHAAH CHARS
Ang mahalaga maganda. Kayang kaya mo yan ikaw pa ba.
For the days in 2021 it looks the same and it looks as if I was repeating each day and this year is better because I'm not afraid anymore to try out new things. Nice to meet you friend
I'll risk having an unusual day. I'll like to e what surprises life has in store for me
Yeah if we want to get to another level we have to try something that we have not done before in other to achieve new thing but if we still continue on a particular thing we would not go further, and fear to try new thing is what causes stagnation in today's life.
I'd love to take a risk than do nothing and im proud of myself because I overcome it, just like when im applying here abroad, before mostly I heard that it's a big risk it's because you don't know what will happen when you're in that place where don't know whose your boss but then I will not listen to all those negatives.
What if both? I have an unusual life but it became ordinary because I am getting used to it hehe. I missed the laughters together with my friends but I can't do that because of circumstances
Natamaan naman ako ditooo. Kaya siguro sobrang nababagot na akos a buhay, kasi paulit ulit nlang tung ginagawa ko. Kumbaga, wala ng excitement and thrill. Apala plaim nalng.