Jealousy!

Jealousy they mostly say is a bad thing or feeling that keeps or controls people to always cause harm to others . It keeps them wayward and mostly goes a long way to retard progress but is that all about jealousy? Well, let's look at this ..

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Jealousy as already said is always thought to be of bad influence but let's look at this.

What at all is jealousy?

Jealousy refers to the thoughts or feeling of insecurity, fear and concern over a relative lack of possessions or safety.

Mostly, we see people nowadays ruining the lives of others, causing pain to people while others also cause various degree of injury to their friends ,relatives and as well people they don't know but little do they know it can be done the other way where we look at what we feel we don't have, and work for it.

A man who thought his brother's son was far better than his decided to poison the child simply because the boy won a scholarship to study abroad . On the verge of doing that , he was caught and arrested .

A movie I watched shows a girl who used to be the best in class when it comes to academics, and also had her specific group of friends she walked with. It was all fine until a new student was admitted to the class. The new student in a way took her friends from her and also performed better than her in class. Here she was suffering a double blow( lost her friend's attention and again lost her "position")

She had nothing more to do and based on the feeling of insecurity she decided to steal money and tell people the new student was the one who stole it on the basis that , the new girl had a poor financial background..

In the first scenario, the man who decided to poison his brother's son on the basis of being better could have done it differently. Feeling insecured in this sense could have been a great realisation for him to help his son make it but instead he didn't. We all have to identify what our insecurities are and deal with them accordingly.

On the second one, the girl child who decided to put the other in trouble did it successfully. The new girl was suspended but guess what happened , her mom who found the money in the girl's room asked her about it and she told her mom the truth. Some parents would have agreed to her conduct but her mom told her exactly what her faults were and made her know that she was wrong.

After this, she told her this , Mistakes are made but the most important part of it is what you do after you realise your mistake, and by this ,the girl admitted her mistake, went back to the school's principal and took the punishment of suspension.

We should all be like the mother who will have a good influence on our peers, relatives and as well others when they use insecurity to do something bad.

Everyone in one way or the other feels jealous due to certain things we encounter. We sometimes feel jealous when things are not in our favour . Why didn't I get this while I was tge first but this girl or boy had it ? And other questions run through our minds but with all these we should always make sure we have a good though and do things accordingly..

Thank you all for your time .