When you forgive it is for yourself, for your own good, and for your own peace NOT for them.
Is it true that forgiving is one of the hardest thing to do in life?
Yes?
No?
What is clear to us is no one said that forgiving is a easy peasy thingy.
Imagine if someone made a rumor that affect your daily living and then that someone will let's say ask for forgiveness because they know that you're a good person and they dictates that you will forgive them for their mistake because you are a good person which you may think that it is unfair for you.
They did a rumor, it affects you and then suddenly they will ask for forgiveness? Why?
But you know what? I think it is okay to forgive because it gives you peace.
Do not focus on the person, focus on the mistake that they did. You're upset because of the mistake that they did not to the person that did it. Because doing that (hating the person who did the mistake) is like robbing them the chance to change their selves and become a better person. Try to put your self into their shoe and think for the motive why they do this, why they do that for you to understand them.
But remember if you are not close or the bond of your friendship is not that strong enough CUT THEM OFF in your life. Cut them off don't give them the pass to do it again because there is a chance that it will get worst.
If I take the forgiveness as a a hardest then it is the hardest thing and if I take it easy then it is easy. You you have discussed a a very important thing. Thanks for your article. In the last, you said if you are not close or the bond of your friendship is not that is strong enough then cut them off in your life. You have said well. If the bond of my friendship is not strong then I should cut that. Forgiveness is also a thing by doing that you can lead a peaceful life. It brings happiness of your mind. Thank you so much again for your useful article.š This is @Rafi2002 (Abdur Rafi). I am from Bangladesh.