I was born in a messed up century

Date: August 4, 2021
Article No. 37

Yesterday, August 3. I haven’t published an article because my mind was occupied and I’m at my friend’s house. We chill, hang out and talk like normal people with friends does. (I mean, all of us have friends right?)

When I got home, I really wanted to start writing but headache visits me cause my headache cares about my HEALTH! It was really painful so I decided to take some rest and then slept early after taking my dinner.

So, at my friend’s house. She shared her problem and how she wanted to move out, have a job and live a life of her own. I don’t really want share much about it. But in fact, I read an Article that has the same thought as her. It was from @kli4d

“A Bird Yearning for Freedom”

You should consider read it after this article. It was a really well written by a talented and intelligent guy.

I totally understand and support her because, we are programmed to want our offspring to do well and survive. You know? Getting out of your comfort zone, see the world, make mistakes, because how will you suppose to be independent and grow up mentally when they keeps p murmuring and babble about your failures and disappointments.

Some parents would control their child because at their days, teenage years, they made a lot of mistakes. So maybe they wanted to fixed their mistakes by controlling their children? Ha! Pretty brilliant right? I don’t know, I just know some people.

I was born in a messed up century

Before sharing my thoughts and some informations, I want you guys to listen to a song, understand the lyrics because the lyrics say it all.

If you don’t like Alternative/Indie genre, pretend to, for this Article sakes. Lol. It was really a good song.

Title: Parents by YUNGBLUD

My high hopes are getting low, because these people are so old.

-YUNGBLUD

Do you know how it feels having trust issues that you can’t even trust yourself? It is because we do things our parents told us to. Avoid this, avoid that. Do this, do that.

We have to obey what our parents told us to, for what? Avoid making mistakes.. what else? How will we supposed to learn? How will we supposed to grow? When they keep controlling us, we become more dependent to them because we thought that they are always knew what is right since “they’ve all been there” They know what’s best for us.

What about you? Ask yourself what you wanted to be, you can’t be an engineer because it’s what your dad’s dream about that he wasn’t able to reach. How about your dreams? Are you letting yourself to live your dad’s dream even if you can’t handle it and can’t do it? As early as now, decide for your future.

And just to be clear, I’m not saying to disobey our parents. Respect them because they are growing old, they just want the best for us because they care about us and for our future, and we should make them understand that we need do to things for ourself and try things out for us to learn and grow. I’m sure they will understand that.

Messed Up Century

My daddy put a g*n to my head. Said, “if you kiss a boy, I’m gonna shoot you de@d

-YUNGBLUD

It’s pretty messed up living in this century. I thought it was peaceful before but then I’ve seen some lots of cruel people. The LGBTQ was always been there since the beginning but no one accepts them. Well it’s good to know that they all stand up with their feet’s and fight because those beautiful people belong to this community. Some people, especially the old one just can’t accept the LGBTQ+ community. I don’t know how some people’s mind works but I think they should respect others as much as they wanted to get respected by others.

Closing Thought

No matter what the situations may be. Our parents will always be our parents and we should respect them. Parents are just concerned all the time and worry if we make regretful things that could damage us and our future. I also bring up there the LGBTQ since it was also included to the song. Teasing his father even more because he knew his father don’t like Gay people.

Article No. 37

Author’s Note

I was born in a messed up century. Are you also being controlled by your parents or just living in messed up life? Just don’t ever give up and always remember to just keep respectful for older people and to anyone.

“ IT’S ALRIGHT, WE’LL SURVIVE, ‘CAUSE PARENTS AIN’T ALWAYS RIGHT”

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