There's no career turn off, when it comes to love

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2 years ago

A few weeks ago @Kushyzee wrote an article about "What career turn you off"

You can read it here https://read.cash/@Kushyzee/what-careers-turn-you-off-5b5d8855

In the article he shared some screenshots on how a lady asked the question "what career turn you off" she stated the careers that turn her off a guy, a lot of people attacked her with abusive words, maybe because she didn't state her reasons for choosing those career as a total turn off for her though.

@Kushyzee also stated some careers that are a turn-off for him and he stated his reasons which it's understandable, though it's a self-choice. I believe that when you are madly in love with someone, you won't be discouraged with his/her career, I have seen people who swore never to date a model because they usually dress half-naked when taking photoshoots, but most of them change their minds when they met the loml and to be honest when you meet the love of your life, nothing truly matters, all you want to do it's to love and support him/her in every possible way,

Let me tell you a short story

In my country there's this lady called Mercy Johnson, she's an actress, she has been acting for years, working hard as an actress to make an impact in the movie industry, she eventually became successful and people love her very much, so many thought she won't get married because she's an actress and we know most times she has to be professional in her career even if it means to kiss an actor in a firm. Well now she's happily married to a wonderful man and they have beautiful kids, A new journalist asked the husband in an interview, how do you react when you see his wife kissing an actor in a movie, The husband smiled and told the journalist that, He loves and support his wife but he doesn't watch any movie that involves his wife, the journalist was amazed because that was not the answer she was expecting to hear.

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Why I'm telling you this ?. Love it's blind that what they say, well it's true when you meet the right person, the specification of the partner you plan to date/marry won't matter, as a lady maybe you want a tall handsome guy with a nice haircut, but a guy that it's not that tall and also not cute like you imagined approach you, then you manage to exchange contact with him and the both of you started chatting, slowly you are liking him, then you blindly fall in love, when you know that he's not your spec but you love him. That's how love works.

There's no career turn-off when it comes to love, There's no spec when it comes to love, There's no broke or rich person when it comes to love, There's no age when it comes to love. Love it's like a city and in the city everyone it's treated equally, you don't need to meet the standard of the one you need, love will level both of you to be perfect together, That's why love it's blind, cause a blind person can follow you anywhere without asking you where are you taking me to unless what you feel it's just friendship and you are forcing it to a relationship.

You can know more about love and how to know your perfect partner when you first meet

https://read.cash/@Cogamedia/keys-to-having-long-lasting-relationships-e2a60b2f

Lastly, please

Don't tell someone that you like them but the career they are chasing it's a turn off for you, that would make them feel worthless and it's not good, don't be the reason someone stops chasing his/her career because you don't like it, you don't have to like everything before you love me, remember it easier to destroy than to build, if you truly love them, building with them, you will show them, love, you will support the career, you will look them in eyes and tell me that, I don't like this career, but you made me fall in love with you and the career, and if you can't love them for who they are, you don't deserve to be loved either, just walk away with a good reason don't tell them it's because of the career. Don't be the reason they hate their passion just because you don't like it.

Thanks for reading, I hope you learned one of two from this, lol. I'm still open to sponsorship.

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"...don't be the reason someone stops chasing his/her career because you don't like it..."

Well put.
If their career is a problem
then best just not get involved,
without judging the choices they made before you arrived.

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1 year ago

Yeah I agree, you can love her and won't bother about her career.

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1 year ago

The thing is, I won't even fall in love with the person if I know she's a pornstar or a prostitute. I don't believe in love at first sight and I will get to know the person before I will even fall in love, it's through that process of knowing the person that I will know what she does for a living, and if I find out it's pornography or prostitution, I won't even bother myself anymore

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2 years ago

What if she hide it from you till marriage, you now discover that she's not really what she claim to be. Will you file a divorce?

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2 years ago

Absolutely. I always make sure to find out what career a person is doing and if I find out they lied to me in the future, I get totally turned off. Nobody likes getting deceived

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2 years ago

Absolutely nobody like the feeling of being fooled from the beginning.

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2 years ago

Love is still blind? Lol. 🤣🤣🤣

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