I guess you are wondering why your I guess you are wondering why your previous relationships didn't work out well, You might be wondering where you went wrong? you always give your all in a relationship and it still doesn't work out as you imagined (expected) it to be.
Well" thank God you saw this article, after reading through this article you will be able to get some answers to your questions about why you always have failed relationships.
I will be going through some points of view on why you always end up with failed relationships and I will also be giving you tips on how to have a lasting relationship. So hold on to your seatbelt let's begin the ride, lol.
Firstly let's know the definition of Relationship,
A relationship's a bond between two or more people working to achieve a common goal (the same goal), The reason I used two or more people it's because there are different types of relationships, we have a business relationship, family relationship, love relationship and etc, but we are talking about a love relationship that only involves two persons (majorly two opposite genders).
Like I said relationship it's a bond between two persons working to achieve a common goal (the same goal), Through my studies about relationships and why most people end up losing a bond they wanted to keep forever (failed relationships).
Know your Partner very well
A lot of relationships ended in tears because both parties didn't take time to know each other better, They thought that love it's enough to keep them together forever, but thought wrong. You see relationship it's like a building, when starting a building project you will have to lay the foundation first right?, Before continuing to lay bricks to form a building, love can only lay the foundation of your relationship, you need more than love to continue the building, you need to trust each other, you need to give each other attention, you need to be supportive to each other, you need to know the moods of your partner, know what makes him/her happy, know what triggers him/her, know their sad and happy moments, know how they react when they are angry so you won't be taken unaware. A lot of people don't know how their partner reacts when they are angry because they are busy getting comfortable with their happy mood. Your partner might be jovial and you love him/her joviality but that doesn't stop you from knowing the other side of them, ones you know both sides of your partner, you are sure of happy a good relationship that will last.
Love at first sight
We all might have encountered this maybe as the lover or the lovee (the one being loved). I won't say there's nothing as love at first sight because I'm a lover boy, lol. For those of you who haven't encountered this, let me explain how it works, When you see someone for the very first time and it feels like you already know them for ages, you easily connect with him/her, and then you get into a relationship in less than a week after meeting and so on.
For few people this strategy works out very well, it depends on the energy that it's being spread between them that determines the outcome of the relationship, I have seen couples who got married after 3 months of meeting each other and they are living happily till date.
Communicate with your partner
This one sounds funny, right? Well it's true as seen, most people don't communicate with their partner in a relationship, I still don't understand why most people find it difficult to communicate with their plan like I mean, we are in this together so you can tell me how your day went instead of telling just fine, relationship it's a place of love and comfort, if you truly love me you will ask how I'm doing and if truly you are comfortable with me, you will be able to tell me every single details on how your day went.
Know the difference between being patient and wasting your time
Some people don't know where their relationship it's heading, they are just there watching their relationship being blown by the wind, and the worst part it's that they are not even trying to talk to their partner and ask them what's happening to us? where's this relationship taking us to? I don't understand what are your future plans for us as a couple? Don't be afraid to ask your partner these questions so you will know if you are still chasing the same goal or they have backed down, ones you notice the energy you are receiving from him/her it's changing, do well to approach them and have a deep convocation with him/her, don't keep shut for long, know the difference between being patient and wasting your time.
Ladies, do you discuss your menstruation with your boyfriend?
This one is for the ladies, I know most guys find it disgusting to be hearing about menstruation period, but let me tell you a secret. When a guy truly loves you and care for you, he won't find this disgusting because he cares about your well-being, in fact, he won't find anything disgusting about you, the only thing he might find disgusting about you is when you start giving him less attention or drawing back from him. If your man has warmed you not to talk about menstruation around him, ask him if he truly loves you, if he said yes, tell him that he should also love the whole of you, your uniqueness, and your flaws altogether.
I think I will stop here, for now, I might just write another article on this later, but sure though, lol.
The truth's that there's no key to a long-lasting relationship, the only key you need for a lasting relationship it's the right Partner, the right partner it's the key to a long-lasting and happy relationship that will lead to marriage.
Stay safe out there and always remembered that @Cogamedia cares.
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