Saturday's are for weddings
Happy New weekend Read stars, how did your Saturday went, well I didn't attend any wedding though, but I feel like writing on this because it's the thing I can think off now, so hold on to your belt as I take you on a ride.
There was this article I wrote weeks back “Saturday Traffic” which is sometimes caused by a wedding reception and all, private and public vehicles will be dragging who will pay first then it will start causing traffic, bit by bit, well, that's not what I'm here to talk about though, some people say it's because Saturdays are resting day for workers and students, that's why they prefer doing a wedding on Saturday, so people will be able to attend.
Weddings are one the biggest in Nigeria (depending on your pocket) and people are making huge money from it, especially when you want your wedding to be remarkable and also luxury type, that means a lot of money is going to go down for such a wedding.
There are two types of wedding, which is the wedding and the luxury wedding (I really don’t know what to name them, lol.)
The wedding is more like a normal wedding in which there wouldn’t be too many expenses, what they usually use is a canopy, bring DJ and photographers, foods and drinks will be available, etc.
while is luxury wedding is more expensive (everything called luxury is actually expensive, lol) the luxury wedding is done in a hall or perhaps event center, in my state now, there are some event centers that collect bigger price than the others, base on the location, the packaging (like the what is Inside) the also the 24hours power supply, then followed by the photographers, the bouncers (people that will guard the entrance from uninvited guess and they also maintain peace and order in the event) the ushers, yeah you heard it right, ushering are one of the leading businesses in my country and a lot of are getting into it daily, they will be the ones to serve food and make sure that everything is kept in order, the lighters, haha, I call them the lighters because they bring the fancy lights to the event and they also bring what we called, digital smoke (that smoke that doesn’t have any side effects and they usually use it for events), followed by the Dj that will be dropping vibes on vibes, there will also be a live band to spice up the event, MC will be on the ground to do the talking as MCs does, videographers will also be available to video the beautiful event and caterers will also be available, they are actually the most important persons in the event because people need to eat before they can spray money, lol.
There will be Aso Ebi women and men and they normally dress in native attires, they usually pay huge money to buy the material and also sow the same style if Agbada, there will also be the men in the suite, sometimes these two people are the same, they will be the ones on suite with the groom, while for the females, they also have the Aso Ebi gang and they have the bridesmaids that will be close to the bride.
Most ladies prefer luxury wedding and they can go any extent to get it, even if I means for the husband to borrow loan, they don’t mind, they just want to impress their friends and people that will come around, they believe that it will increase their standards in the society and people will look them like goddess and gods, lol.
Mhen it’s like I’m passing through too much these days, I just feel lost. But I believe that things will be clear for me soon because these past few days have been bad for my mental health.
27/11/2021
When we talk about wedding I guess it depends on the culture. Like here in my country there are some places that wedding are usually extravagant. They are really spending a lot Though there are also some places that a normal wedding is okay or whatever the couple want. As for me, of course I dream of an extravagant wedding too. However, I didn't marry a rich man and I don't want to start a life when loans to be paid to we decided to settle in a civil.wedding.