One side of a story is dangerous

One side of a story  is dangerous 

It's a long and hot day for me today, it has been like this for days. While some countries are enjoying the sweet winter, here we are enjoying the wrath of sun, lol, the sun has become so hot to the extent that everyone is complaining about it, I posted it on noise cash, some of the people in the same economy as me feels the same thing, maybe Christ was born in sunny day, lol, well that’s not my topic for the day though, let’s get right to business. 

Yesterday after I finished publishing’s my article, another article just flashed into my head, I wanted to write it yesterday and daft it, but I got too busy on both read and noise, this evening as I was trying to search for a topic to write on, I remembered that I had a topic yesterday, but I couldn't remember the exact topic, after few minutes of cracking my brain, I remembered the topic, which I'm going to write on now.

Before I get started, this might offend certain people, but I wrote it from my perspective and observation things, so without wasting much time again, let's begin. 

Yesterday, I was going through Instagram and I saw a post by Instablog, they posted how a lady was living her dream relationship until it becomes a nightmare, in the pictures was disturbing, that's why I decided not to share it here, according to her, her partner beat her up, though she didn't state the reason for it, she just posted a picture of her with a disfigured face.

Now, I know that maybe people will be calling the man evil names like the monster, devil, or even stupid, I'm not saying what he did was fight though, all I'm saying is that before judging him, try to know his side of the story because one side of a story is dangerous and some women like to always play the victim, even if they are the one that threw the first blow, they just want to be the pitted one and paint some men evil. 

There's this Instagram comedian in my country (I won't mention the name, but most people would have come across his story) he has a wife and a son who's like five years old, this man was being abused by his wife, sometimes his wife will beat him up and give him scars, but he won't tell people, maybe family and friends must have noticed it though, so this man came to social to say he wants to divorce his wife, a lot of people was commenting on it, including feminist, they started attacking the man that how can he divorce his wife, after five years of marriage, this and that, he told the people that he has been suffering in the hands of his wife and he also accused her of cheating, that made a lot of people to attack him more than he's just looking for a way to dump his wife and move in with another woman.

Until one day that the woman was chasing him with a belt, he ran to the bathroom and locked himself there, he was recording the video, showing the new injuring he got from his wife, while his wife was banging the door so hard, he also runs a DNA test for himself and his son to see if he’s indeed the father, but unfortunately he wasn’t the father of the boy, after calling him Son for five years, when those people that attacked him before, saw the video, they became calm and they couldn't say a word, because they looked at foolish for running into judgment without thinking twice.

That's how some of us look sometimes when we rush to a conclusion without hearing both sides of the story, I feel for the woman that had disfigured face, but we didn't hear from her partner, maybe he might be in the coma fighting for his life, well, I don't know though, all I can say is that one side of a story is dangerous. 

I apologize for not being active these days, but it's kind of busy in the studio these days, and I have a project I'm working on, I believe I will through with it, so I can be more active here. One love Readers. 

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2/12/2021