Who knows Kids Better?:Mums versus Nannies

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March 11, 2022

Before I could start my blog I want to tell all the mothers who sacrifice a lot for their children that you are a hero a mother who can do whatever circumstances she's facing for the sake of her children and that may we still have good health always as we have so many goals for our kids.

For today's write-up from the title Who knows kids better? mums versus nannies, I came across this topic as I see a video on TikTok wherein there is a survey between a mother versus a nanny they tried to interview some of those people who have a nanny as they are busy with their work others busy with their businesses and that they prefer to get someone who they trust in taking care of their children while they are busy with their everyday errands.

This survey from a Singaporean Family wherein they hired 225,000 foreign domestic helpers for them to work and some of them worked 24/7 and don't even get a day off.

In this interview, first, they ask kids some questions and the mother and nanny are trying to guess the answer to the kids if who's got the correct answer.

These are some survey questions that they ask some kids.

Who is their best friend in school?

What are they want when they are growing up?

And there is this one question that somehow we can relate to. One little girl asked why she wakes up in the middle of the night she answered that she wants to sleep beside her nanny and when her mother asks the same question she answered maybe because she has a nightmare.

It's sad to know that 74 percent of nannies had the more correct answer than the mothers.

There are so many commodities that happen when we are always busy and don't have time for our kids but we can't blame also to some mothers who didn't have a choice but to leave their kids for them to get a job. One example of this is a single mother as she doesn't have any choice no Mother or parents wanted to be departed from their children.

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Mother should put exert time on the children that we must be friends with them we must ask about their feelings their wants and needs although in my case as I have 2 daughters and far for them I always been there even how busy I am but no one single day that I didn't check on them and tried to explain why im doing this and that.

And that's all for me today I just want to say thank you to all who have always been there for me no matter what.

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I salute all the moms out there. Based on my experience mas mabuti hands on tayo sa pag aaruga at pag aalaga sa ating mga anak,magagabayan natin sila sa kanilang paglaki,subalit kung kailangan magtratrabaho tayo kailangan may oras tayo ilaan pra sa kanila,punan nating ang oras na wlaa tayo pra sa kanila,

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2 years ago

Nung single mom ako mas my time pa ako sa anak ko kasi kahit saan ako mgpunta kasa kasama ko siya pero now that I am married at my anak na din kami ng asawa ko ,wala akong time sa anak ko kasi I have to work.As much as I wanted to have more time sa bunso ko pero wala akong choicve dahil need ko din mgtrabaho.

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2 years ago

I have 3 kids and I am a working mom. Its very difficult but I always give Time for my kids every night, making it up to them

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2 years ago

No good mother would want to part away from their children but they still need to make ends meet, pay bills, buy foodstuffs, pay tax and all but still they should always create little out of their time to be with their kids. Mother's love is needed.

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2 years ago

True na dae! Ingon ana jud sa Singapore ba. Mas closed pa lgi mga bta sa nanny kesa sa mga mama..

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2 years ago

It seems like i have watched that kind of video sis, somewhere in Facebook and it's quite sad that nannies knows the children more than it's mom. But we also can't blame those working mom as some of them can't really stand being at home, as they use to work. It ain't easy to be a full time mom so some of them prepare to work. Somehow because they are busy they can't find away to have time for their children's.

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2 years ago

Oo sis hindi din natin ma judge yung mga magulang na mas pinili ang magtrabaho dahil yun lang ang nakitang way para buhayin ang anak mostly sa mga ganitong scenario yung mga taga ibang bansa dahil hindi nila kadugo yung magbabantay sa kanilang anak unlike sa atin na kapag gusto natin mag work inihabilin natin sa ating mga magulang or someone na kadugo na mapagkakatiwalaan.

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2 years ago

Dear Cleophia, I am sorry for all the mothers who, like you, have been forced to stay away from their children. But mothers, no matter how far away from their children, or how busy they are, still have to keep themselves close to their children. It is unfortunate that nurses are more aware of the situation of their children than mothers.

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2 years ago

You're right sis Ellen, tho it's difficult but we need to stay connected and explain to our kids so that they will understand the situation.

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2 years ago

Congratulations on achieving a wonderful person as your sponsor wishing to be like you 🤩🤩 . Actually I think mom's knows kids better because they are the one that born them and they are the closest to they moreover some times nannies understand kids better so mums don't watch their children they rather pay for nannies to take care of them . As for me Moms knows kids better ( It like a debate here 😅😅)

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2 years ago

Mostly man gud Kai nagsalig rah sah mga katabang, kai everytime nag need ilang anak cge rah ug ingon adto neh nanny, nia sila kai nagyaka rah cge ug cp.

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2 years ago

May gani lage dae wala koy bata nga gibantayan deri kay kung naa pa dili ko magdugay deri layas dayun ko.

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2 years ago

Whahaha, mulang kapoi kaau wui bsta naai bata, sus ginoo ko, kapoi man can't ng mga tigulang

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2 years ago

Ang hrap din ng situation nung magulang nuhh po sis, kasi Tama ka din na hndi nila gustong iwan anak nila pero no choice tlgaa ehh kung baga yan ang consequence para maging mabuti yun sa tngin ng nanay

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2 years ago

Mahirap talaga sis pero siguro nasanay na din yan sila , ang malungkot sa part ng anak dahil kapag dumating na ang time na aalis na ang nanny malaking parte sa kanila ang mawala dahil napamahal na din sila sa kanilang nanny pero silang magagawa kapag oras na ng pag uwi marami akong nakikitang ganyan na scenario matagal silang maka move on dahil itinuring na din nilang magulang.

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2 years ago

Halaaa anu ba yan ayukong imaginin at kawawa po yung bata dapat pag ka day off ng mga parents ehh maalala nilang my anak silang Pina alagaan sa iba

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2 years ago

Ang aking mga alaga sis ako lahat ang nag sakripisyo illniluwal lang ari ng ina,pero sa pag aalaga at pagpapalaki di mababayqrqn ang aking aruga sa mga anak niya. Ang alaga kung lalaki na binata na ngayon noong maliit yon di yon natutulog ng di akonkatabi gusto pa ay salo kami sa unan tapos pag tulog na saka ko siya ililipat, Ito namang kambal na lalaki pag di makatulog gigisingin ako at gusto tumabi pero di ko pinapayagan kasi masikit kame ,pero ang ginagawa niya di na ako ginigising Natalie na lamang at ng hihila ng kumot hinahayaan ko na lang at nakaka awa naman kasi sa sala yan natutulog pag nagising natatakot kaya nalipat.

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2 years ago

Hindi kana nila malilimutan sis parte kana ng kanilang buhay mas naaalagaan mo pa sila kesa sa dalawa mong anak.

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2 years ago

Mao gyud na ang sad reality dae sa uban ,naa mga parents nga mas hing focuse para sa future sa ilang mga anak not knowing nga nalayo na diay sila sa ilang mga anak and as a kid nga need og much attention og care sa parents nga yaya nalay makahatag.

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2 years ago

Kung akoy naay kwarta day dili nalang jud ko motrabaho pero hinoon ang tawo wala man gyud katagbawan bisan pag daghan na og kwarta hala trabaho lang gihapun mao nga ang bahala nalang walay time sa anak basta lang maka kwarta.

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2 years ago

Sagdi lamang ka kay bisan naa ka sa layo ,sige man kag monitor sa imong mga anak ,ang uban gud puros trabaho nalang wa maka huna huna sa anak.

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2 years ago

When a child is born in this world, when that child speaks the mother's language and gives a beautiful smile by looking at the mother's face, then the mother's soul finds peace! The love of mother and child is really deepest so all mothers should give time to their children. The child should be given time in the midst of a lot of busyness, love should be expressed in the arms of the child, the child finds peace in the lap of the mother! When I get married, I will keep my child with my wife. It will be a lot of fun and my child will be very good!

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2 years ago

Ate nakit.an ko na, sad but reality kay usually tungod sa ka busy sa parents nga manarbaho wala na sila time sa ilang anak. Maong nakit.an sa mga bata ang mother figure sa mga nannies.

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2 years ago

Sa tiktok nimo nakita dae ? Maka touch lang no kay mas na attached sila sa mga nanny kaysa mama, and ang tubag sad jud nila mas sakto ang sa mga nanny kaysa nanay.

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2 years ago

Oo sis sa tiktok, touching kaayo tong about sa nightmare.

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2 years ago

Moms are moms. None can beat them.

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2 years ago

Nope, there is if mothers don't have time for their kids perhaps the one who taking care eventually will be the one who can beat her. But still, it depends on the situation.

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2 years ago

Ouch!. Ako gusto ko talaga hands on ako sa anak ko kasi para sakin pag ang mom ang hands on sa anak kahit may nanny pa yan, mas makikilala mo anak mo ng mabuti kung ano gusto at ayaw nila. Tapos ma didisiplina mo sila sa way na gusto mo. Yung anak ko sis kahit may nagbabantay sa kanya dati, mas gusto niya ako at walang oras na di siya nakadikit sakin kaya at the end of the day pagod pa rin ako. 🤧 Pero kahit ganun, worth it naman. Kaya nga ngayon na gusto ko mag trabaho, medyo nalilito ako if mag worm or hindi kasi gusto ko kasama anak ko oero syempre gusto ko din makatulong sa partner ko at magka savings para sa future ng anak ko. Iwan ba hihihi hirap maging nanay talaga.

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2 years ago

Totoo sis mahirap maging nanay pero ito din ang kasiyahan na hindi mapapantayan ng kahit anong bagay , simula naging nanay ako yung sarili ko pangalawa nalang sila na naging priorities ko kaya kahit anong hirap basta nanay na tayo lahat kakayanin sis, sana kung ano man maging desisyon mo regarding sa work mo at sa baby mo dahil ayaw mo mawalay sa kanya timbangin mo lang sis kung saan ka mapapanatag.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga sis ehh. May mga plans na ko kapag nakapag work. Basta wag lang malayo sa anak ko. Di ko kaya di makita sa isang araw anak ko. Iniisip ko pa nga lang subrang sakit na eh.

True, anak natin nakakapagpasaya satin at sila na ang first priority natin. Mas uunahin natin sila kesa sa sarili natin. Ganyan dapat ang mga nanay.

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2 years ago

This is the lesson that parents should learn how to handle their time. They should have a time management. They should spend a time for their children too. This is really sad sis. It happened in real life. Parents should always in the middle.

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2 years ago

Correct sis pwera nalang kung nasa malayo ang job site.

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2 years ago

Oo sis acceptable yun sis.

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