December 02, 2021,
Since I'm already a mother I know now the feeling towards our children and how our parents overcome all those years when we are still a baby those sleepless nights, the tension when we're not feeling well.
I came to this topic it's because there is one member on my Facebook group where I join that she come up with the idea to commit suicide it's because she's having depression where it involves her mother,
A scenario goes like these:
They are 3siblings and she's living with her mother because she didn't t have a husband she has 1daughter, one time her mother got sick and stays in the intensive care unit for a couple of days she does her best to take care of her mother she gives time and effort for taking care of her because she said she loves her mother ob course.
When finally her mother go out to the hospital, and their relatives are going to visit their house to her mother then while they are having their chit chat with one of her Auntie they're talking about the Billing in the hospital that cost 100thousand pesos wherein the one who pays was his younger brother.
According to her mother that she's very thankful for his youngest son because he is the only one who helps her when she needs money and that she is not thankful for her. After all, it's her job to take care of her it's her obligation so that in that way she can repay for the sacrifices for raising them.
While hearing those words she feels like she does not do anything good at her mother and that she nothing as if she does not exist wherein she also has a sleepless night just to make sure she's been okay.
After the sentiment of her mother, she's now having a depression wherein she can't control herself she always thinks that because she doesn't have the money she feels nothing for her that her mother treasures those who gave the money, that people change when it comes to money matters.
And because of that, she needs advice from the group because she's having unhappiness.
And the advice that I give her is that since her mother gets sick I think she's the one who understands her that maybe she does not mean anything because sometimes when someone gets old they also have tantrums that we must understand their feelings too.
As for me im thankful enough that my mother did not think as her mother does.
And now as im a mother too, I threaten my children equally.
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Ouch. Ang sakit nun. I mean hindi ba naappreciate ni mother yung hirap din na mag-alaga sa ospital? I had the same experience before. My brother and my dad was the one who paid for my mom's hospital bill that cost a loooooot of money before while I was the one who stood by her for almoat a month in the hospital. Nakakadrain yun nasa ospital ka makikita mo in pain ang nanay mo. Hindi naman ako takot sa ospital kaso ayoko yung mahal ko ang nasa ospital. Pero thankful ang mom ko sa aming tatlo kasi para kaming team though mas madali ang magbigay ng pera compared sa mag-alaga. Siguro kung marinig ko sa nanay ko na hindi niya naappreciate yung ginawa ko, madedepress din ako. 😭