July 29, 2022

Are you the kind of person who it's hard to let go of some unnecessary stuff?

Sometimes we have some things that are hard to let go especially if this thing has sentimental value for us like souvenirs, yearbooks, gifts, photos, baby clothes, and some other things.

Although letting go of unnecessary things it's quite difficult but somehow it gives us peace of mind in a way that we have more space in our area and in this way we feel lighter and at ease.

If there are things that needed to be given away because we think we do not need them anymore then why not donate them sure there are so many unfortunates people out there who can not afford all the stuff that you have but you just keep in one corner and just wait until it will no longer be needed and end up into the garbage containers.

There are some people whose attitudes are just like collecting things she feels happy by the time she buys unnecessary things. I can say unnecessary things it's because surely she never needs them and just put them in one place one example of this is my employer.

Given the fact that yes they have money to buy all those expensive things she always goes shopping but at the end of the day she just puts them inside the drawer.

When I was new here in my employer's house they are 4 siblings 2 brothers and 2 sisters who are both single. As time goes by I know and am familiar with each one of them. These 2 sisters have different attitudes when it comes to their things. I like the older sister because she organized her belongings and if there are things that she no longer uses she gives someone and donates them to those who need them.

The younger sister is she's married now and has a 9-month-old baby boy, I was happy at that time knowing that she was getting married because for sure she will go to another house and God answers my prayers she now only comes here to visit every Thursday.

This younger sister of my employer always goes shopping to buy unnecessary things which end up coming crowded in her room. Why I can say unnecessary thing is because she didn't wear those clothes. After all, every time they went outside they only wear abaya. Her brother does not allow her to wear and go outside if not wearing an abaya their traditional wearing.

I remember her bedroom before when she was still not married she leave her clothes on her bed and where she sleep and it was okay even only she had a little space to sleep and no one time I enter her room at that time she is the one clean it.

Until one day their house needs to sell and they must rent a small apartment that was the time that I know she has so many clothes put in big boxes and only to find out that some of those things will not be okay due to some materials will not okay when times go by some will go in the garbage and others she can't do anything with them but to give for there is no space where to put it.

Here attitudes like that up until now I hope someday she will realize how she wasted her money by buying all those expensive unnecessary things and just putting them in the boxes.

Because now in a couple of days she always complains that her husband doesn't want to go to work she coming problematic when she gets money every time she's craving all those sales in the department store lol.

That's all for my Chicka Dora for today.

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