Single & Happy: 30 Days Writing Challenge

June 21, 2022

Hello everyone. It's been a while since I last posted. My online classes have started and along with that I get lots of assignments as well due to which I am unable to remain more active here. But the moment I get some time, I try to engage with you all and publish something.

It's been raining here since Saturday. This continuous rain has reduced the temperature much and today I have turned my fan off because I feel cold today. Although it's summer and as I updated you guys before that temperature was fluctuating between 38 degrees to 45 degrees, finally it's 19 degrees today. A week ago I was longing for rain and now I am longing for a sunny day. Isn't it strange? Human beings are never fully satisfied. Even if they are granted what they truly desire, they still are not content with it. This continuous rain has made the weather quite gloomy, maybe that's why I want some sunshine now.

Anyways it's another day and I have to complete what I started. Yes, I am talking about the writing challenge. It's day 6 of my challenge and let's see what it brings today.

"SINGLE AND HAPPY"

It's a tricky topic to write. I am single right now and there is no doubt about it that I enjoy being single. But one can't say that being in a relationship is not fun. Both have pros and cons. If I talk about the perks of a single life then I would say it's the best time one can have. The level of independence that comes with it is just amazing. You don't have responsibilities and you just flow with the wind. Being carefree is all that a single person enjoys. You party with cousins, hangout with friends, do whatever you feel like without the need to take another person's view into consideration. I think no one likes to be bound or restricted and that is what single life brings. As far as I am concerned I am having this phase of my life right now. I enjoy and live my life according to my mood and choice. I plan outings with my cousins, sleep, eat, and wake the way I like. I live life according to my rules (obviously keeping in view God's commands) I know my limits and that's what matters.

But I think a certain point comes when you don't do much better on your own and require a partner to share your feelings with him/her. Being with someone who loves you unconditionally and who cares for you is the best feeling someone can have. It might bring some responsibilities along the way as well but they are all worth it. Being with someone doesn't mean you are restricted, it means you have someone who sees and enjoys the world the way you do. You kind of get a partner in crime and it's more beautiful than being alone. That someone experiences the good and bad parts of life with you so you don't feel alone.

So, being single and or being in a relationship both have their own charm. It's only a matter of time when those who enjoy a single life shift from being single to in a relationship because I think human nature is not designed by our Lord this way to live alone and single forever.

This is just my opinion, I am not quoting some universal fact.

Thank you for taking out your precious time for reading this article.

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