Tears is not a She

When we feel frustrated, hurt, mad, or even when we’re happy, we often cry. Crying is not about being weak, but rather an outlet when our emotions are too heavy to keep. People tend to stereotype men as a weak being if they cry. Crying is not limited to girls; even men can feel heavy emotions that sometimes they cannot handle. It is a common knowledge to us that men should protect women; they must be strong, fearless, and resilient enough to face and fight difficulties. But men are neither walls nor steels without a heart. Men are capable of feeling, of getting hurt, men are human beings. Sometimes when we can’t feel the support of anyone around us we feel down, it seems that darkness will soon eat us, then all we can do is to shed tears and cry ourselves to sleep.

Growing up without a brother but having childhood guy friends gave me a lot of realizations about them. They care and love me as their own little sister. They are always there to support me, and spoil me with everything they have whenever I get frustrated even with small things. I depend on them and vent my problems; little did I know that during those times that I throw tantrums at them, they’re hurting. They have their own glitches but they chose to listen to me. That’s when I realized to grow up, my childishness and immaturity is still with me but I learned to control that kind of attitude. I came into my senses that he is a man but he also need to be check from time to time. Ask about how he feels, if he’s okay, or if there’s a problem I can help him with. I often told my closest guy friend whom I considered as my own brother how much I love him and I miss him, but it’s not enough. He needs support and a reminder that he can cry all he wants if the situation really messed up. They are indeed strong but they can cry too.

I hope all men who are reading this will not be ashamed if you feel and want to cry. If you feel that nobody is supporting you, cry all you want but don’t forget to pray and believe that God is with you and God gave you someone who’s always there for you, you just have to open your heart. Again, CRYING is not being WEAK; weak are those who said it is.

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