March 27, 2022 - Sunday, 06:20 AM

In our precious lives, we are made from and the result of this special feeling and bond called LOVE. But, why does no one really teach us how vital it is to our personal growth or should I say I was the only one feeling it this the other way around. I mean for sure there are lots of families also who are well educated and didn't failed their childrens to teach this thing to them and make them know the essentials of life while growing.

We all have different practices in our lives, families, schools, religion and all other institutions we could think of regarding this matter. I personally haven't heard and learned it from these institutions I mentioned above because as for me, I gained all of it the hard way, wherein I was being slapped by the harsh realities in life right in front of me by just being exposed into the real stubborn and unequal society.

Now, enough for the fussing intro chill'hustler's and let's head straight to where the fruit is placed in this article.

The Most Vital: Self Love & Care

Growing up as a little rebellious son, I didn't take time to even notice or appreciate these things while growing up, maybe because of and from my choices too back then which is very far from what they expected me to be. So, I learned these matter a little too late, but here I am today fully aware of this thing.

Why is self love and care vital to our each and everyone's lives? It's because for me, this is where people should rely on as a basis for our happiness. For as long as where doing and pursuing the things and matters the right and legal way in which where not harming and stepping others personal interest and lives too, it's all good if at the end of day, these things makes you genuinely happy.

Here in my beloved country the Philippines, pursuing once happiness is always a step behind because of our old and outdated practices in our families wherein the successes of the family heavily relies on their children, I mean not in general but mostly, especially those who are below the average level. Most family's breadwinners are automatically indebted to the families drive and be on the helm maneuvering to further new heights in life. This sad reality is always the one haunting most young and promising workers in each families, not just the breadwinners but all those who take the responsibilities and obligation to support their love ones.

For this sole reason of being relied heavily by their parents, it forces them to even strive their best just to be able to support their own families, it compromises their own personal happiness too. Don't get me wrong, family is their own and main happiness too but personal and mental state is also a serious matter for these individuals and that's why I adore and treat these individuals special. I mean, how can you hate people who never turned their backs from responsibilities and stuff like that wherein they choose to make their families as a priority rather than their own personal happiness chill'hustler's, maybe you'll see none.

These practices are very outdated but we can't blame them either, because family love os second to none also. But, we should be aware that our own personal happiness is very vital too, especially for our health. The main problem of these individuals that are beyond responsible to their families are mental state and body health. Most of them are even doing the impossible and doing extra which pushed and overworked themselves just to be able to provide the needs because they can't afford to be chilling though which is very self draining and this is where and why self love and care becomes very vital.

Self love and care is very vital because if you have these two attributes within you, you'll find joy in everything you do because you can appreciate the things that are happening and you'll learn that sometimes it's okay to reward yourself and make it a priority too. In this way, you can refuels yourself with much inspiration and motivation to further bring you and your families to new heights in life.

Final Thoughts

I have chosen this topic to tackle with because I've been feeling the pressure for the people I know who are really on the hard end of their own personal daily battles in life too this fast few weeks. I'm just here letting y'all know chill'hustler's that we are also capable of breaking down and y'all have nothing to worry about. Just make yourself a priority too, give love to yourself and of all appreciate your efforts, because when everyone stops to believe in us, it is only us that will save and heals our own selves when nobody will do it for us. I personally learn it the hard way in my ten (10) years of working experience away from home and alone in the big cities.

Hello there Chill'hustlers!! 🙋🏽‍♂️ That's it 
for today and as always, I'm glad you 
reach the end again, thank y'all for 
always sharing your day with me, see you 
on the next one Chill'hustler's. Have a 
chill vibe month of March and stay hopeful 
cause better days are comin', Good vibes 
always, Jah bless and PEACE ✌️!!! 🙏🙇

Adieux..!!!
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Title   : The Most Vital: Why Any 
          Institutions Doesn't Teach This
Author  : @Carewind - 88th Article 
March  27, 2022 - Sunday 06:20 AM

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