First of all every man is a father because every man has the tendency to father a child,every man releases semen which will then fertilizes the female EEG to become a baby, only in some situation where the man is facing some challenges that it would seem like he is not complete, but not every man can be called daddy by their kids heart warmly.
Who is a father?ever man is a father because that is who we are or are made to be during creation by the almighty "GOD"as long as we have the male sexual organ during birth,but how do we differentia a father from a daddy,well some fathers do display this listed characters of which when you see such display you know where he belongs.
Some men think being a father is just providing for the household,sending your kid to school,very bad and most times you will see them not smiling much with their kids but rather would laugh out loud when outside with other people because they see their kids as liability with the need to provide and Carter for them that is why you will see some men stop somewhere to drink and wine before going home so as to take their mode off the thought about their home, because they feel furstrated.
Some fathers are like lion of the jungle.you will see their kids playing but immediately they hear the horn of their fathers car or their father greeting people at the compound you will see them quickly run and act like they are sleeping or reading, they will just pretend that they are doing something because they know that fire and brimstone just entered and the peaceful place is now a war zone.
Some fathers are fond of manhandling their kids all in the name of discipling them and most times would cause injury on their kids body which might have an effect on them phycologically and grow a seed of hate in them.
As much as disciplining your kids is good the act of shouting at them is very bad as it might grow a seed of fear in them and affect then phycologically as well which would push them to all kinds of drugs in order to gain back their confidence.
Some fathers lack the act of comforting their kids when they go through hard time,maybe by falling behind in the exam ,the truth is every thing that has life must go through hard time no matter your age only that the levels are different,we are giving trails based on what we can handle in life.
Some fathers find it hard to hold or have a conversation or discussion with their kids expecially the male one's, because they have drifted their kids far away from them due to the manner or approach that they take to handle their kids.
Some fathers do not talk anything good about their kids when out side or when their child's friends comes visiting,and would not hesitate to compare the poor child with his friends thereby causing him the child to have inferiority complex when around kids of his mate.
All this are far from a daddy,a daddy is a man who would go to extra length or mile to make sure they create a child who would be able to withstand what the world have to trow at him by giving him guildance, empowering the child or children emotionality,and having an ear to their hard times or when they need an advise.
One should be sound and unbaised when dealing with his or her child for tomorrow or the future.
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