Disadvantage of office romance for a hustle youth

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4 years ago

Ok nobody would denial the fact that been in a healthy relationship is bliss, especially the fun, the trill if your partner is someone that love exploring and do some craze things with you.but does having a relationship with a female who work in the same company,same section with you healthy.

  • Most youth of this century are more interested with the number of female you have had sex with,they glorify the number like it's an award,price money and wear it like an achievement and having a multiple girls people call your "bebe's" seems like or make most of them feel on top of the world .

Now let me talk about why I said dating a girl working in the same department with you is not good the reason is because..

1)the act to look good

Am sure every male want to be seen as alpha male especially we Africans,every man want authority,to be in a position where people request for your knowledge,seek you attention or your permission before undergoing and doing thing with that in mind every man want to look good,dress well e.t.c,such attitude or behavior is good but you see a hustling guy go to the extreme of buying extravagetly not just for looking good sake but to impress his office girl.now with that mindset you would see some guys spending unnecessary to aquire the best outfit to put on to work which might take a toll on their savings,thereby making them not to plan more and save for their life.

2) distraction

Just like I said about some guys trying to look good for their woman with money that should have been put into good use for the betterment of their life and their future thereby distracting them from setting a goal, while some guys are able to balance it,not all are mentally capable of keeping their mind intact without been distracted with all the lovel dovel stuff that comes with being in love .office relationship most time cause lots of distraction from always trying to stay close to her,to mark to other guys that she is yours so they should stay clear, to checking out why she is laughing loud to a coversation she is having with some guy.

3)the mindset of providing for her

Most of our ladies are exhibiting entitiment mentality and are somehow demanding,now as a guy hustling and having a girl with such a mindset is like the worst nightmare to ever have reason is because the guy would always be putting more money in his wallet because he don't know what she might request from him or wish to eat and he wouldn't want to be putting her off because of fear to see her being snatch from him.

4) fighting you co worker because of her

Tis tis.. making some of your pals enemy just because he talks with her a lot or see her collect something from him.

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Yes you are right, personally I don't think of such thing to do in my workplace

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Don't dream of doing it

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4 years ago

The thing is that its bad to romance in the office and I don't even wish to do that in my life

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