Cook Your Own Happiness

Live each moment, enjoy each passing day, do what makes you happy, the only person in charge of your joy is you alone, cook your own happiness. No one can fill those joy lags on your behalf, so when you see something that you like then go for it, why wait. When you see someone you like also do go for it, what is the hold up for, learn to be happy, its up to us to do whatever makes us happy, no one else, nobody else, joy coming from within can also be planned for and self executed, there is no one who can do it better just how you want it to be done, so find it yourself.

Just like sometimes we eat someone's else food and we are very overwhelmed, we want to eat their food continuously, that doesn't mean we can't cook for ourselves and eat, if that perfect cook isn't available anymore then what can we do, cook for ourselves. Same thing applies to life fun and joy, there could be someone you love being around with, their company gets you satisfied, no one else makes you feel so amazed and joyful, however that same person might need to go, do we stop living then, no we won't stop living, we'll just cook our own happiness.

Recently read from a post on social media and something struck me, the post talked about a sick man who his wealth couldn't secure his life for him, everything he has spent his life building, he would have to let go to somebody else, hopefully his kids, but then almost similar feeling as Solomon got when he said all is vanity upon vanity, this young man also confirmed that more than the struggles of life, we should also spend time being happy, more than the worries and anxieties we should spend time on things that would bring us eternal joy.

Ofcourse money makes you happy, so you can't stop the search for money if you want to be happy, you'll need money and preferably well enough to fuel whatever ambitions you might hold. I consider good memories as eternal joy also., cause our memories never dies, we would still be aware of our actions and our adventures while we were yet living, so our memories stays with us forever, both the good and the bad, so why not make as many good memories as possible, life can be better when we are intentionally about our self.

Cooking for others too is a thing of joy, knowing you aren't always self centered as you've filled someone else's stomach, someone who is hungry must be looking for food wherever it would come from, but preferably from someone he knows too well for security reasons, so he or she can freely enjoy the food, likewise someone who needs to be happy would be looking for who would bring this excitement into his or her life, but they would prefer it'll be from a friend so they would feel secured and freely enjoy the moment without feeling odd or deeply indebted.

Also its worthy of note that a food not well cooked can actually be better prepared next time through learning, so we could also learn to be happy, sometimes we don't know how to catch fun, some of us are introvert but we seek a nice time, a great day filled with mind blowing memory, all the time we have been out has been nothing serious, just causal, so normal, so we wish someone could teach us how best we can find happiness for ourselves. So learn, just as you learn to cook your food, you can learn to cook a great day, there's nothing bad with learning it.

It's your life, it's one play time, live each moment, let go easily of the sad times, dwell more on the good. At last nothing else matters than how well we have lived our life, the main thing however has been to live a good life, in this we are sure to live in heaven after earth, this truly is the greatest joy we can cook for ourselves, nevertheless while we cook than remember to stay happy. Happiness indeed is a choice, cook yours today.

Thanks for reading, Stay happy ❤