When Life Smiles At You, It Frowns At Someone Else.

I have seen different people. I know people who have dated ten guys before they finally got married to their husbands. I have seen people who dated just two before they met their husbands. At the same time, I have seen people who have been dating their husbands since when they were small and they eventually got married. It means that the husbands are the only men that they have seen. Also, I have seen people who dated up to twenty men, and none of these men got married to them. I have even seen people who married different men at different points in time but they always end up leaving the man's house for one reason or the other. I still know of some people who find it hard to get married because no one wants to marry them and at the end of the day, the only option left for them is to give birth to a child for one man and be a baby mama. I've seen people again whose past relationships did not work out and they ended up marrying an old man or a married man just to be called someone's wife.

What can you say about all of these? Should we call them life challenges or what? I know one thing. Sometimes, when life smiles at you, life is frowning at someone else. Also, when life frowns at you, it is smiling at someone else. That's the irony. If it is sweet here, it is bitter there. I know that we all have a category that we fall into the ones I've listed here. A lot of ladies will be happy that they dated just their husbands and eventually got married to them. They will feel happy and blame people who have dated more than ten men. I guess it is easy to judge people when you are not in their shoes. It is just so easy. You can just say anything that you like and think it is as easy as that or it works perfectly the way you have said it. Some people are just so unlucky. Some ladies are so unlucky when it comes to having a man in their lives and that is why you see some of them who haven't gotten married at the age of forty. Not all of them are prostitutes. No!

I was surfing Twitter a few days ago and I saw a post by a lady. She wrote, " Dear ladies if your body count is more than ten, you are so unfortunate". I was so sad because I'm very sure that the lady is ignorant of other people's experiences in life. What do you say about a lady who gave all her life to a man and the man ends up leaving her? Then it happens from the first man to the tenth man. Don't forget that this woman remained loyal to those men when she was in the relationship. What do you have to say to that? Oh, now that she has slept with ten men, you now have the right to call her a prostitute. Isn't it? Let's take another example. A lady is extremely cute and she met a playboy who just wants to sleep with her without her knowing that. This same thing happens from one guy to a countless number of guys and now someone will call her a prostitute because she has slept with numerous guys. Right?

Some ladies out there are even dealing with spiritual problems that you don't know. Some ladies find it hard to get a husband. A lot of men just want to dupe the lady of her property. I've always heard something. A lot of people believe that if a woman is rich, it means that she is a prostitute. That's not nice. It isn't. I know women who have never found true love. Some women do not know what true love is called. All they have ever experienced is beating, sadness and hatred. There are some women out there that a guy has never told " I love you " genuinely. If you are part of those who are so lucky to get a husband or lover without stress, be grateful and do not blame other women like you are perfect. I've even noticed that this set of women always have the most wonderful behaviors that even the ones who are married do not have.

Do not just assume that every woman who has slept with numerous guys is unlucky. There's a reason for everything and sometimes, you don't need to know the reason. It is not needed!

Remember, when life smiles at you, it frowns at someone else😊.