What Should She Do?

So,this is basically the story of my best friend whom is in dilemma. I decided to share the story with y'all if you'd have an idea or a good advice. I also suggested an advice at the end of the article so if you go with my advice, kindly let me know.

There's a man that lives close to where Mamaleyi lives. Mamaleyi has been attracted to this man ever since she was in secondary school. Now, Mamaleyi has gained admission into the University. The man never stopped liking her.

He didn't confess his feelings to Mamaleyi but it was very obvious that he's in love with her. So when Mamaleyi left for school, she didn't come home for a while. It took her over two years in school before she came home. She left for school again and finally went home after she graduated from school.

But guess what? The worst happened. This guy got married before Mamaleyi came back from school. Mamaleyi was shocked because she also developed feelings for the guy but it didn't really hurt her since they didn't have anything together.

This guy was able to have physical conversation with Mamaleyi and he expressed his feelings to her. Don't you think it's too late? He explained how he waited for her and told her that he got married because he wasn't able to reach her for the whole of two years. So he apologized for not making it up to her. But did he not really make it up to her? As long as they didn't date or have anything together. And they were just crushing on each other from afar.

Mamaleyi had to explain to him that she's not angry about the marriage and congratulated him. After few weeks, this guy began to disturb again. He's begging Mamaleyi to get married to him. How's that possible please? I can't even think of dating a married man because I'm married and if someone eventually dates my husband in the future, I'll finish her😅.

He's promising heaven and earth and right now, Mamaleyi is confused. I've warned her several times to forget about the guy but it feels like she's still thinking about him. Right now, she's in dilemma and she doesn't know what to do.

We all know that the last thing she could ever do is to forget about the man. We all know that. But how do you think you can forget a man that you've always liked for years? It seems confusing but Mamaleyi is still sad about the marriage.

What can she do to forget the man? Or should she leave her area to another place entirely so that she wouldn't remember anything about the man? I was even suggesting that she blocks him on every of her social network so that he wouldn't be able to reach her and tell her some nonsense anymore.

And for you reading this, what do you suggest?