She's In A Dilemma

Juliana is a young lady in her early twenties. She has been engaged in past relationships but they seem not to work out. At a time, she thought it was a spiritual problem but her friends always tell her that it is a normal thing simply because they have faced that too. Juliana has dated three other guys and they all broke up with her. So, she had to take a year's break from relationships. When she was ready to be in a relationship again, she met a very handsome man. She gave him all of her because she loves him. After two months in the relationship, she realized that he had a main girlfriend with whom he was willing to get married. She felt bad but due to what has happened in her previous relationships, she decided to stay and give him a second chance hoping that the guy will change. The guy shows her red light and she already knows that he's a no-go area. It means that they can't get married. The guy kept on posting pictures of his main girlfriend without restricting Juliana from seeing the post and he's even going to write a caption to make it obvious that they are dating.

Even though Juliana felt bad, she didn't confront him twice. The last time she confronted him about having another woman, she shunned her and insulted her. If it was you, what would you do? And I feel like Juliana is very much attracted to the guy and that's why she doesn't want to leave him. Or, she doesn't want to be the only one without a relationship among her friends.

Five months ago, Juliana met a guy of her tribe, compatible genotype, and every other thing. She met the guy through a friend and as the very jovial person that Juliana is, the guy loved her vibe and decided to exchange contact with her. They began to talk and talk and she began to like him. The green light is very obvious. And it's very much obvious that the guy likes her. Recently, he asked if she could come sleep over but she refused because she's having trust issues. The guy calls almost every day and even provides almost everything that she needs. So she felt like, a guy doing this for her will have something in mind for her. After a few days, he wooed her and till now, she's yet to give a response. She's being dicey. She doesn't trust him. Though, she already knows little things about him and his work and other necessary information that one could know about a friend. She knows his house too.

One problem is that the guy doesn't post on WhatsApp. She expected a cute boy like that to have a girlfriend or to have someone with that they do things together. She checked his snaps and didn't find a single picture. So, she believes that she doesn't know much about him that way. And their genotypes are even compatible. Also, Juliana doesn't want a situation whereby the guy will jilt her as every other guy has done or the guy will have a girlfriend like her present man. She's taking her time and doesn't want to rush things. I feel like if she accepts the guy's proposal, it may end up well because he doesn't hide things from her and he treats her like someone next to him. So, it's very obvious that they love each other.

If you were in Juliana's condition, what would you do?

Also, if it happens to be your sister, what would you advise her to do?

She's in a dilemma

Juliana needs help😪