Perspectives!!!!

Would you believe me when I tell you that a lot of people have heavy hearts? A lot of people are going through a lot but a lot of us don't know because we see couples post each other and we think everything is going on well.

Something happened to a friend this morning. She has been dating a guy for a few months and she realized that he was married. Before going further, if it were you, how would you feel? What would you do? My friend called me and started crying.

God knows I can't take it. Why will a man woo me without telling me that he's married? It's very wrong. God knows I'll never forgive such a person. When wooing a lady, you should tell her your stance. You should be plain about what you want her for. This thing is painful and I can't even imagine it happening to me.

My friend began to cry like a baby. I felt her pain. I've been heartbroken countless times because I know how it feels to say goodbye to a lover. Especially when you realize that he has someone he will spend the rest of his life with. It's so devastating and I'm imagining what she's going through right now.

The guy is very wicked. He jilted her!!! Why didn't he let her know that he was married? He used her and took her for granted. It means he doesn't love her. Many guys do that to ladies and it's very wrong. And that's why you see some ladies do crazy things to guys.

Though there are a lot of ladies who are cool with it. They see it as no big deal. They even prefer dating a married man to a single guy. I've seen a lot of ladies like that and I won't blame them because we all are different people with different perspectives.

I have a friend who prays to date a married man all the time. Whenever she tells you that she is in a relationship, just know that she's talking about a married man. And right now, she's married to a married man. She's doing well because it's from her perspective. Anyways, I can't do it.

And a lot of married men approach me daily too but it's one thing I don't wish to do because I won't feel good when someone else is dating my husband. I'll feel very bad. God knows I can't take it and I can't give what I can't take. It's a bad habit.

I know there are many things you find weird that some people like. There are some things other people find weird but you like them. We're different people with different ways of reasoning. So, I won't blame anyone for his or her actions. And we shouldn't judge anyone because there are many things we never planned to do but we find ourselves in such situations.

What about you?

Can you date a married man?