Love Your Siblings.

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2 years ago

It is generally believed that parents should take care of their children. Also, it is generally believed that the father fends for the family while the mother takes care of the children. That is how some family leave their life but they have forgotten how to train their children to be united. A lot of parents don't know how to train their children in a way that the children will be able to relate with people outside their family and that's why you see some people behave in a very nasty way and you begin to ask them who raised them. Some parents don't even know the essence of eating together, they don't know the essence of going out together, they lack so many things which are not supposed to be. And that is why you see so many people outside that are not loveable because they lack the knowledge of the essence of these basic things.

I watched a film a few minutes ago and the movie was about two sisters. In the movie, the mother loved the younger sister more than the older sister but the reason is not clear. Right from when they were small the younger sister has always been jealous of her older sister for no reason. But the older sister seems to be a very good person, loving, kind, and hardworking person and that is why she always does her things successfully. While all of these were going on, she never disliked her younger sister or do something bad to her. One thing I learnt about life is that there are many things you would not be taught but you need to teach yourself. The lady thought herself how to love her sibling because they were not taught that right from small.

When these two sisters grew up, things did not go well between them. It was just like it used to be. The older sister became a very successful person while the younger one was successful but not like the older sister. I mentioned earlier that the younger sister is always jealous of her older sister for no reason or maybe because she feels like the older one is better than her. When it was time for them to get married the older sister brought her fiance to their mother. The younger sister as usual got jealous of her older sister and decided to snatch her sister's fiance. This is when I knew that it was their mother's fault because she did not try to unite them when they were little. It is very weird when you see two sisters of the same mother fight over a man. One thing I have learnt is that you should always protect the interest of your family members and not fight over something with them. I should be able to protect them so that whenever an outsider tries to do something stupid, I'll fight for my siblings.

Siblings should always fight for each other and not fight each other. The only time siblings should fight each other is maybe when they have a little misunderstanding and they should settle it amicably. People who were trained with love will never fight their siblings to the extent that they will begin to go to the extreme. In that movie, the little sister went to the extreme by trying to snatch her older sister's fiance. Some parents lack the knowledge of uniting their children. I read a lot of things on social media. Some siblings have sex with each other. It's bad!!!! You're supposed to know that he is your brother and she is your sister. The family relationship has to be there. The people who are very close to you should be your sibling because if anything happens to you, at the end of the day, it becomes their burden.

I know a lot of people here have given birth. Please try to unite your kids. Let them share love between themselves, as siblings!!!

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I have a sister and a brother and thankfully we were raised to love each other and live in harmony.

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2 years ago

That's beautiful of your parents

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2 years ago

Honestly, children grow with what they have been taught. United from childhood could mean united till forever.

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2 years ago

Exactly and that's why they should be trained that way

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2 years ago

Family unity is very important, it's the fault of their parent that such is happening. I can remember when I was small and my mom gave birth to my junior brother, you need to see the way I am allways all over him. I won't like anyone to carry him away from my mom at all, I am always over protective even till now. Our parents should teach us but we can also teach ourselves.

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2 years ago

Awww, caring kid😅😅. That's very good of you😊😊

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2 years ago

My parents are separated since we were a child. We are 3 siblings and ever since we are being taught by our mother to love and take care of each other simply because that's what we are suppose to do as family.Now that mom was gone the 3 of us though have our own family still value each other and know that we all have each other no matter what life throws at us and passing to our children as well the importance of family.

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2 years ago

That's how it's supposed to be!!! Kudos to your mom

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2 years ago

Thanks dear!

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2 years ago

I felt sad about what happened to two.siblings eventhough it was only in a movie.

Thus, happy to know that we are raised by our parents having a good relationship with our siblings..

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2 years ago

That's the joy of having a family🥰🥰

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2 years ago

I always hate it when a parent decide to love one of their children more than the others, things like that will always create a division and start causing problems that will follow the kids into adulthood, it doesn't end well in most cases

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2 years ago

It can never end well💯. It's a bad habit that parents should stop

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2 years ago

Love starts from home. You can't claim to love and care for others when you don't do same for your siblings. Hate relationship among siblings are sometimes encouraged by favouritism, parents preferring a child over another

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2 years ago

It's very bad. It's normal to have a favorite child but parents should not show it because of jealousy

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2 years ago

Siblings while growing up, then to fight for each other, but when every has grown to a certain stage, everybody start fighting for themselves

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2 years ago

You're very right, my friend

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2 years ago

Siblings can fight each other due to misunderstandings and because of love, they resolve it immediately. There are few moments my siblings and I quarrel at home but out there, no one messes with any of us. We love and protect each other. That's the power of family.

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2 years ago

Exactly. Even though we're not on good terms, I'll make sure that we protect each other

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2 years ago

Only siblings are the real friend as i think. Because blood never betrays. So we should behave well and stuck with our siblings. I'm unlucky that i have no siblings. Miss someone as a sister because after mom i think sister is the best place where we can get a relief.

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2 years ago

You're never unlucky😊😊. Luck is yours💯💯

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