Love Can Be Crazy.
Do you all realize that love can be very crazy? Love will make you do the things you never thought of doing. Presently, I'm not in love with anyone aside from me so if I'm crazy, trust me, I'm only crazy about myself. Self-love is paramount. Isn't it? A few months ago, I wrote an article about my friend and her boyfriend. I mentioned that her boyfriend used to live with a lady that he calls his friend and I'm very sure that she's not his friend. I already spoke with my friend about the relationship. I told her to leave the toxic relationship. The guy is just taking her for a fool. He loves the other lady and it is very clear but my friend has refused to listen to me. She's adamant. She's in love and she loves the guy blindly. She has failed to take note of the red flags.
Yesterday, we went to the guy's house. He told us that he was going out and left us inside. When he was coming back, he called my friend to know if we will eat Rice and she said no. After a few minutes, the guy came back with the Rice and I didn't want to behave like I don't want the Rice too so I took the Rice home. Then my friend texted the other lady by pretending that the guy told us that he brought the Rice from her place. With the response the lady gave to us, we realized that she cooked the Rice and her so-called boyfriend lied to us that he bought the Rice. Only God knows if they have poisoned the Rice because I see no reason why the guy should lie to us about where he got the Rice from.
My friend asked me if she should confront the guy. I told her to carry on. It is nasty behavior. I saw her chatting with the guy while she was eating the noodles we cooked last night. We had to throw away the Rice her boyfriend brought. I saw tears dropping outta her eyes. Later, she became active again and started to smile. I know that the guy must have lied to her about something and she must have begged him again. I noticed that she begs the guy whenever they are arguing. She's treating herself less. I noticed that if you treat yourself less, people won't value you. She's not listening to me and not even listening to her parents. She has been warned t walk out of the toxic relationship several times but she's not listening.
I care about her. She's my friend. How can I help? Please🙏. I would not want her to get married to that beast. Please help me😪.