Is Relationship Stressful?
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I was talking to a male friend this evening and he told me that a relationship is stressful. Do you agree with that? I agree and disagree. You know what? I'm being dicey about it. I'll tell you why I agree and why I disagree.
I agree because I've been in some relationships in the past and I know how it feels. Presently, I'm in a relationship and I know what the stress is like. Imagine seeing your man posting another girl. How would you feel? Imagine getting a very rude message from your partner and your heart begins to palpitate because your partner may break up with you soon. Imagine that you see your partner receive a call from the opposite sex, what's gonna come to your mind? Aside from that, many things may sound stressful to us. Whenever you're in a relationship, you should always think about your partner. Any step you want to take, think about your partner. And I'm sure that a lot of us don't have the time to think about one partner anymore😂. We all just want to be alone because we are running away from relationship stress. The fight between partners is also stressful. I'm sure that those who have dated troublesome people know what I'm talking about.
I can still say that I disagree. Why? I'd tell you. Whatever you do in life, always see yourself as your priority. You shouldn't be an option to yourself. And if you're ever gonna be an option, you should be the first. Some people do not know how to set the ball rolling in a relationship. Before engaging in a relationship, always make sure that your partner is aware of you are your priority and that your career is your priority... Let your partner know that you can't live for him or her. Set the ground well. Have an agreement and I'm sure that with this, your relationship would not be stressful.
I think trust is one of the major issues why people have a stressful relationships. I've noticed that a lot of people have trust issues. If you have trust issues, the relationship won't grow. Sometimes, you gotta trust your partner and do not entertain any outsiders to begin to tell you things about your relationship or to begin to sabotage the image of your partner.
Always go to where you are celebrated rather than where you are tolerated. Most people tolerate nonsense because of what they are gaining from the relationship rather than save their self esteem. If anyone ever gets to the point where trust is broken and you can't even vouche that the person would not act in a different way when you are not around, that's the best time to leave. Why? Because it never gets easier. It would always get harder.