Woman never leaves her children

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I was in the TGIF mood as soon I woke up and I instinctively decided to go make my hair just to welcome the new month in style. Though its been quite some time now that I had braids but I find it more beautiful than weave- ons. Braiding is the the simplest and commonest hairdo in my parts of the world. I don't have to comb or brush my braids all the time, unlike artificial hair or wigs.

Although, it might hurt especially when the the braids are new, since the hair follicles are been pulled away from their roots. Sometimes the pains become uncomfortable as a woman might find it difficult to sleep well at night with her head placed on the pillows. We don't really Care, so long as we look good on braids and there are people out there that adnire it. Lol. Afterall childbirth is very painful, but that's not sufficient reason for stopping women from getting pregnant.

My hairstylist is simply the best and I have known the woman for a long time now. She arguably had the most customers compared to other hairstylists in the market. She had that natural skill for making good braids anf her braids are less painful on the head.

I think I have a natural talent for dancing, but i have never danced in public , lest somebody might see me and say that i was just forcing it and don't really know how to dance (You know how dancing is, Lol).

In the absence of a husband, this young lady is able to feed and take care of her two children with the modest income she earns from using her God-given talents. Whenever its Christmas or new year, she gets more clients as patronage generally increases during this period because alotbof women would love to get their hairs done.

We all know that one of the most upsetting circumstances that could ever be experienced by a mother is to see her children remain at home while other kids learn at school due to the inabilty to pay their tuition fee.

From the money generated, she's able to save something for her children's tuition fee pending January when school resumes. She tells me she doesn't joke with her children's education, that she could even sell her jeweleries and shoes so that her kids can get a decent education. Her life's story is quite a sad and familiar one to we all.

Growing up, I have seen alot of young girls who had to abandon their education because they had suddenly got pregnant, which im most cases wasnt their fault.

They never had much choice than to sacrifice their dreams and aspirations for a daunting journey into motherhood they never prepared for, either as a single parent or a wife to a tricky partner.

I don't think I have ever seen or heard about a guy who dropped out of school because he had got a lady pregnant.

" I can't have a baby now, I am too young and not ready to be a father. I have a future ahead of me". A young man would say. Some might even deny the pregnancy even though he knows very well that he was the only one . In a desperate attempt to save face, he might suggest abortion, which a sensible young lady would vehemently decline.

At the climax, the only option left for her would be to go live with her mom or the boy's parents with her child, thereby putting her life on hold while the young man continues to chase his life's ambition.

In my society, a woman can always endure an abusive marriage or a cheating partner for the sake of her kids. No matter the trials that she's passing through, she'd definitely put her kids first because of the strong bond they share. A separation from their father would really cause the innocent children an emotional trauma. Other kids might ridicule them when they find out that that their parents are now apart. A mother is always conscious of this fa t whenever she's facing challenges in her matrimonial home.

In a lot of societies, women are under pressure as the society always believe that it is the duty of a woman to redeem her marriage even when it becomes obvious that she was never the one at fault. In most cases, a woman makes an all-out effort to salvage her marriage even if it were at the brink of collapse. Not for herself but for the sake of her children.

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