Getting by with the 48 Laws of Power

I was told about this book when I was only 18 years ago. I heard alot of people saying that the book had benefitted them in alot of ways when they started applying the lessons learnt.

However, a few people said that they wouldn't recommend it because some of the laws wee quite manipulative and could be used for selfish purposes. I am quite sure that the author,bRobert Greene warned the readers against this.

Well, it's never in my personality to manipulate or sacrifice others for personal gains. Meanwhile, I'm a kind of person who is very mindful of the kind of information I absorb and the kind of books I read.

Needless to say, I have gone through the book and I was able to grasp some of the laws that suits me and they have been beneficial to me so far.

These are my top three favorites

LAW 1

Neve outshine the master:

This rule specifically works well in an organization or a workplace. I have come to realize that if one is very submissive to his superiors by making them feel very comfortable above and also following their orders to the letter, then such a person would put his or herself in a good position to attract favors, promotions and recommendations from a boss.

You could also massage your boss's ego by always giving credit to them after a job well done, even though it's all by your efforts. Saying stuffs like ;

"my boss taught me how to do it "

OR

"I simply followed the instructions of my boss".

These statements could really make your boss move in a big way for you.

LAW 4

Always say less than necessary.

This has been a golden rule for me as I have virtually been observing it for the most parts of my life. Anybody who talks too much is not always taken seriously by the crowd. He or she would always appear ordinary and even boring to the extent that they begin to loss whatever respect others have for them.

Let other people do the talking while you listen. Chances are that you would hardly learn a thing if you are always the one doing the talking.

Only speak when your opinion is asked especially in a meeting or gathering. Even at that, you should go straight to the point without boring the crowd with unnecessary details.

Remember to also choose your words carefully .

I have also observed that people who speak less appear more powerful, admirable and intelligent than folks who are always shooting off at the mouth.

LAW 15

Know who you are dealing with. Never offend the wrong people.

It's advisable never to take anyone for granted by stepping on toes, especially when you don't know much about the other person as different people react differently.

Some people are arrogant and violent and wouldn't hesitate to attack you when they feel threatened or disrespected. Others may appear calm and harmless on the surface but are very good at plotting revenge by stabbing you on the back while you aren't looking.

They wouldn't care how long it might take, they must have their own pound of flesh someday.

Also, there are folks who are very insecure that even a harmless joke about them could stirr up alot of ill feelings since they already believe that everyone is against them.

Trust me, you wouldn't want t/such a person to have their eyes on you too while thinking of how to make you pay for the pains you have caused him

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Thanks for reading. You could also mention any of the laws you find useful in everyday life.