What is a secret?

A secret is something confidential,something not meant to be known or seen by others.Then the question is why do we keep SECRETS? As we read on, I will like to share a story with us that will make us see the reasons why some secrets should not be kept and this should help us have a rethink on the secrets we should let out and the ones we should keep. No matter how strange and hard it is to comprehend always try to open up to your partner either in courtship or in marriage, don't follow the saying of an ignorant which says"my problem is my problem " in the world today problems should be shared to avoid depression and suicide cause if you are thinking you can handle your problem all by yourself and it turns out you are not even capable of handling it then such victim is at the verge of death cause once depression set in that is the end of such person it takes grace to overcome depression.

WHY DO WE KEEP SECRETS?

Some people keep secrets to protect their identities while some keep secrets to avoid been bullied,embarrassed and rejected in a society, some keep secrets because they believe it's their personal problem no one else should know about, some keep secrets because of lack of trust in their partner or who they believe should be in the best position to keep their secrets, but have we ever sit down to think deeply how these secrets can ruin our lives completely, I bet some people will be wondering how can my secrets ruin my life?

I know of a woman who got married keeping a lot of secrets from her husband which one of the secret happen to be:in her family, the first two children given birth to are always still birth.She kept that from her husband not knowing her husband too has a huge secret he is hiding from her(beginning of trouble in her home). One night her husband woke her up to tell her his own huge secret cause his conscience is disturbing him.(you all will be wondering what the secret is right, here comes the shocker).

Her lovely husband told his wife that in his family they don't give birth to more than two (2) children. And remember in the wife's family their first two children is still birth that unknown to the husband because the wife wants to protect her home, the wife hearing this, she became dumbfounded her husband thinks she is annoyed not knowing she is in deep pains not knowing the next step to take to still protect her marriage, now in this dilemma what did you think the wife should do? Should she continue to keep this secret or she should open up to her husband and find solution to their problem?

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