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Important Thing In A Relationship Blog #155 February 10, 2022 The following story that you will read is inspired by the video that I watched earlier on Facebook. There was a couple that was married for two years. They were blessed with a healthy boy during their one a half year of being married. But one day the husband decided to divorce his wife so he went to his father and told him about his decision. **Son**: *Father, I want to divorce my wife because she is an irresponsible wife.* **Father**: *Why do you say so?* **Son**: *She doesn't know how to cook. She even doesn't wash the clothes properly and can't clean the house neatly. She even wakes up late every day.* **Father**: *Is that so?* **Son**: *Yes father. You can come with me and stay at our house so you will see how irresponsible my wife is.* **So the father accompanied his son to their home. As soon as they reach home, they saw the wife sleeping together with her son.** **Son**: *See Father, she did nothing but sleep.* **The father was just silent as she watched his daughter-in-law sleeping.** The father stayed in his son's house for a week and observe the couples. Then after a week passed, they both talked again with his son. **Son**: *You see how irresponsible my wife Father is. She isn't like my mom who cooks delicious foods when I was young. Mom can even fix herself, unlike my wife. She also wakes up early morning to prepare food for our breakfast.* **Father**: *My son, you know why your wife woke up late in the morning? It's because she stayed awake late at night just to feed your baby.* *Do you know why she can't wash the clothes properly? It's because she is always in hurry. She has many things to do and she also needs to do it faster because when her baby is awake, she can't do it anymore. Her attention is on your son already.* *Do you know why she can't cook delicious foods? It's because she doesn't have time to learn it.* *When you were young, the reason why your mother woke up early in the morning is that I helped her take care of you during the nighttime.* *During the daytime, while she was busy taking care of you, I was the one who clean the house and even wash the clothes during my day off.* *Your mother can cook delicious foods because she has plenty of time learning the taste. While I am the one who took care of you.* *She has time to fix herself because I help her take care of the baby.* Hearing those things from his father, the son then realizes the wrongs that he did. After work, he spent his time with his so-called friends rather than helping his wife at home. During the nighttime, he is also so busy playing games on his phone while his wife is busy taking care of his baby. In a relationship, couples need to help each other, especially when having a baby. Not because men are the ones working, they will make it as an excuse not to help their wives. Remember, a wife's duty is not easy. Doing the house chores and taking care of the kids at the same time is exhausting. Not because we didn't complain, it doesn't mean that we aren't tired. Husbands should have the initiative to help their wife so she could have some time to fix herself and can relax too. ****For Me The Most Important Things In A Relationship:**** **Understanding** **Helping Each Other** **Trust** **Love** **Communication with each other** This is my entry on @carisdaneym2 birthday giveaway. Here are the mechanics of the giveaway.
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so beautiful story, and also the duty of a mother is unending 365 days a year without any break,. Imagine what she would have gone through if that husband divorced her.
*You're right, a mother's duty is unending ...She would be sad and maybe would be depressed if his husband will divorce her*
Yes sis that's true. A part of a couples they must helping each other. They should understand each other. The husband should realize and understand about the part of his wife. He should help her especially when the couple has a baby already. Man should have in initiative too. He shouldn't complain. He should understand the situation and make a way how to make it settle and easy.
*Exactly sis. Being a wife isn't easy that's why she also needs a help from her husband especially when they have a baby already.*
Yes sis kahit di ko pa na experience damang dama ko na yung pagod sis.
*Ma feel mo talaga yun sis kasi diba naging parent ka din sa mga kapatid mo noon?*
Oo sis pero iba talaga pag baby pa sis.
*Oo nga sis, lalo na pag May sakit yung baby. Isa yan sa struggles naming mga nanay*
Such a great story sis:) kainis si lalaki makademand wagas 😁
*Kaya nga sis, akala siguro madali lang yung gawain ng isang asawa...Pero May ganito talagang sitwasyon sa realidad sis diba? Yung todo demand pero wala namang ginawa para tulungan yung asawa nila*
Oo sis madaming ganyan, karamihan mga bata pa kaya immature at di pa handa sa buhay may asawa. Pero kalaunan naman eh natutunan naman, di solusyon ang maghiwalay. Away lang pero walang iwanan.
*Tama ka diyan sis, May nakilala akong ganyan. Very immature pa yung lalaki. Naglalaro pa nga ng marble kahit May anak na pero nung muntik na siyang hiwalayan ng asawa niya, nagbago na siya. Ngayon super responsable na sa kanyang pamilya.*
Ang ganda ng lesson nito sis taa naan na daat eh nag tutulungan ang ag asawa
*Ganyan talaga dapat ang mag asawa sis, kailangan magtulungan di yung iasa lang sa isa*
Yun yung mahirap talaga ate,kapag lagi yung pagkukulang yung napapansin sa relationship without understanding the other part. Kaya nga partner eh kase dapat nagtutulungan sila hehe. Hirap kaya maging Mommy especially kapag more than 1 yung anak na kailangan alagaan
*Tama ka dyan Mayiee, pag laging pagkukulang ang napapansin, di nila ma appreciate yung partner nila.. mahirap talaga maging isa mommy tapos May demanding pa na asawa.*
Sana maraming lalaki makabasa nito dae para maliwanagan naman na dapat nagtutulungan at hindi dapat demanding sa mga asawa nila.
*Sana nga dae kasi di biro ang trabaho ng isang asawa. Napakahirap kaya at nakakapagod din*
So touchy sis... Mao na huna hunaon sa mga laki ba nga di lalim ang trabahuon sa balay ky naglibog pa ta unsa unahon sis no. Maau pka naa nka entry.
*Lage sis, Dili ng ilang kaugalingon ra ang huna-hunaon. Di jud ra ba lalim ng gibuhat na'to niya sila maka-demand ug attention Wagas...Pwede pa ka makabuhat sis, layo pa man sad deadline. Naa kay 3 days*
Kesyo sila lgi ang naay trbho kunuhay mao kna ra sd ila huna hunaon. Nahimo lgi ta ug maid hahaha. Tan awon ra ani sis kung makahimo ko.
*Lage naa'y trabaho kuno pero dapat ila huna-hunaon nga sa relationship, dapat magtinabangay sis, dba?..Go sis, makahimo pa lagi ka*
Di bya mgkapareho mga laki mao swerte na lng ug mkapartner ta ug musabot gni sa kahemtang nato. No need na ingnon na. TN awon ra sis ky mgzombie pko hahaha.
*Tama ka sis, di jud pareho. ..Aguy Zombie na pud, hahaha. Unsa na ka nga episode?*
This is just so right sis. Marriage is a partnership, which means that both parties should be willing to be each other's helping hand.
*Exactly sis, kaya pag pumasok sa ganyang stage dapat alam na ang dapat gawin. Both parties dapat magtutulungan para tatagal ang isang relasyon*
Ganda ng story sis, relate ako ng kauntian
*Hehe, thank you sis. Saan ka dyan banda naka-relate,*
Basta sis hehe
Short story pero kapupulutan talaga ng aral Sis. Nakakalungkot at may mga lalaking katulong ang tingin sa asawa nila, yung kailangan pagsilbihan talaga sila. Di nila alam struggle na sa part ng babae.
*Kaya nga sis, di nila naisip na napapagod din yung mga asawa nila. Gusto nila pagsilbihan lang at Wagas kung maka-demand ng attention. Kung di maasikaso, magagalit pa*
Relationship won't survive talaga if there's no care and help to each other ang couple. This is such an eye opener for all the couples who wants to last whatever relationship they have but didn't even care to their partners.
*Tama, kung walang care at love di magtatagal ang isang relasyon. Isa yan kasi sa nagpatatag ng isang relasyon*
Important thing in relationship is better understanding. Yeah sometimes men don't care or even think about wife rights. This is bad for a pure relationship.
*Exactly, in a relationship, understanding must be present to make it work and last*
We can't just give up on someone because the situation is not ideal, great relationship aren't great because they have no problems, they great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work.
*You are right. Relationship works because they care and understand each other.*
Good communication is a must. Because There are many factors that contribute to a satisfying marriage/relationship such as; Love, Commitment, Trust, Time, Attention, Good Communication including Listening , Partnership, Tolerance, Patience, Openness, Honesty, Respect, Sharing, Consideration, Generosity, Willingness/Ability to Compromise in all things. To all men out there please be sensitive especially if you have a baby.
*You are right sis. Those are the things that could satisfy a relationship and i hope some couples who have been in that kind of situation above would realize those things*
My friend, your story was great. Bravo. Unfortunately, I have seen many husbands around me, who always think that because they work outside the home, and make money for the family, they are no longer responsible for other family matters, and the rest of the responsibility should be on their wives. While other responsibilities are a lot, women in the middle are really helpless. And at the same time, those men say that you are a housewife, don't do these things, so what do you want to do? It's really annoying to hear that...
*I am sorry to hear that my friend. There are really many men who think like. They think that they are providing for the family's needs, they don't need to help their wife at home and that kind of thinking is wrong. Husbands should consider and take initiative to help their wives coz wife's responsibilities are so many...That's really an annoying thing my friend, just because we are housewife, we are restricted to do other things.*
Absolutely stunning reply of father to his son about importance of relationship. Really some time we look only one side of story but ignore other one . A successful couple always care each other , assist , cooperates and resume each other.
*Indeed to make a relationship successful, caring, helping, cooperating and understanding each other must be present in a relationship*
Relationship important thing in our life. Relationship There are some important things that we need to keep in mind. There are some difficult times in a relationship that we have to maintain.
*You are right mate, in a relationship, there are many important things we need to have in mind especially when we face difficult situations in life.*
There's no straight manual to having a good relationship, but I agree with all those things you wrote about theost important things in a relationship. If those things are present in a relationship, then the couple can overcome any challenges
*Right, those things must be present in a relationship to make the relationship last*
I don't know about these things as I'm not involved in this types of relationship yet but I always observes the behaviour of my parents. No matter how much my father is tired whenever he gets some time he always helps my mother in cooking, washing, cleaning. From my parents, I learned that understanding and patience are the keys of a good relationship. One need to understand others with patience.
*You have a responsible father, I salute him for that.. yeah right understanding with patience is really important to keep the relationship in harmony*
Sometimes relationships become one sided when the other party doesn't do his/her part to help. Marriage requires teamwork too, it is a MUST actually :) All the best to you on the contest
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