The Definition of True Love

Reminder: This article is not intended to hit someone or to offend someone. This article is my definition of True Love. I don't have any experience about Love but I do have standards and opinions in terms about that matter. If you read something that makes you hurt in this article, then that is the sign that you need know about that. This only what I observed in others relationship and instead to do what their relationship have, learn from them.

What Is Love for you?

For me Love will not force you, that you feel you are insisting yourself to someone. Honestly speaking, there is no perfect love, even our parents failed to love sometimes. In short Love defines Respect, Discipline, Wisdom, Patience, and Happiness.

Respect

If that person really loves you, then he/she will respect you, respect your decision. I two person that's loving each, if one have a decision then other one will respect others decision. Know that in loving your decision will always matter, learn to understand your partners opinions and decision. Respect is one of the most important matter that Love should have. If you can't respect to the person "that you loved" then that's not true love. How can you express someone that you are inlove to her/him if simple respect you don't have, stop that feeling because that is not love.

Discipline

If someone tell you that he/she loves you then , Discipline will be seen to his/her personality. If he/she can't discipline his/herself the way he/she show loved then stop that feeling because it is not true love. Discipline is important in terms about love. For example, the mother or father's side of the one you love. You must show discipline on how you treat them and their family.

Wisdom

This personality that people will always have because without wisdom that's the time we became selfish, insensitive and careless. We didn't realize things that we are hurting someone. Know that every emotions are valid and important. This word "Wisdom" will be use if someone is courting or expressing his/her love to you. Use your "Wisdom" and make your sense active, if that person is pretending or true to his/herself. Use, God's descerning Spirit that bestowed upon us.

I remember King Solomon in the Old Testament when God tell him what he wants to ask for? He never ask God material things or power, instead he ask Wisdom that he will use to discern good or evil.

(2 Chronicles 1:11-12 NKJV) And God said to Solomon: “Because this was in your heart, and you have not asked riches or wealth or honour or the life of your enemies, nor have you asked long life; but have asked wisdom and knowledge for yourself, that you may judge My people over whom I have made you king; (12) wisdom and knowledge are granted to you; and I will give you riches and wealth and honour, such as none of the kings have had who were before you, nor shall any after you have the like.”

Patience

As Ken Ganad said to his song "Dili lang mag dali kay ang Diyos ang mo pili". "Don't Rush because God will choose the right for you". If you love someone then you think that it is not time to tell her/him that you love that person, then be patience. If you think you are to old because of your age, No! God has a plan for you why he didn't allow yourself to gave that "love" you feel. Remember that there is always a right time for everything.

“Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes.”

Psalm 37:7

Happiness

Love will not define as true love if there is no Happiness. Not happiness that only endure for a short time but happiness that you can endure forever, happiness that can't be paid my money. You can only find the true happiness to the right person that God has meant for you.

Author's Viewpoint

I humbly say that I don't have any relationship right now or even experience to love to the person. In my age right now, I don't need a person to feel love because the Love of the Lord is enough. I will choose to enjoy my life without any person because if you have GF/BF, you will always stick to that person and will depend your happiness to her/him.

If you are in a relationship right now, then we can't assure if that is the right person for you. Be sure that you didn't hurt someone because of that Love. I respect your own decision because that is your Life.

And those single out there, Let us enjoy our Life without any person that will dictate to us. There is a right time for everything. It's better to wait, than to feel sorry at the end.

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