A Father's Love

Good evening to all of you read cash friends out here i hope you are all doing good, safe and far away from the virus brought by the covid 19 pandemic. In this article of mine i just like to share about how very deep and different the love of a father to his family and children.

We all know that the mother is the one who carries their baby in her womb for 9 months until they finally give birth to child and welcoming in to the world, and usually the one who gets praise from loving and caring all the children is the mother because it is basically the mother should be the one in the house and take care of their children.

For me i cannot say anything about how my wife raise up our children, i admire her for what she have done for our relationship as a couple and especially as a mother for our 2 children. In my case i grow up with lack of love and caring of a mother since i lost my Mom when i was only 6 years old when she was diagnose with cancer and eventually die because of her sickness so i can say that i grow up in a not so good or straight way experience. My life has been on a bumpy road and lots of problems growing up and it is because the lack of guidance and love of a mother, even though my father is still around because he have another family already and cannot pay attention on me as i have 3 step siblings from him.

But when i meet my wife she has changed me in see the beauty of life and how it is important to have a family so when she gave birth to our first son even though she have a working career i said to him that much better she stopped working and just focus on taking care of our son and I'am the one who will be working and give our needs as father should be the one doing it and as the fact that i want my children to be very close to my wife and be taken care very well by their mother.

The things that i did not get in my early stage of life the love and care of a mother is the one thing that i want for my children now to get to be nourished by good morals and tender loving care from their mother. When our eldest son was only 2 years old i decided to work abroad for them to give them a brighter future i worked in middle east for 6 years with a month vacation for every 2 years so i can say that i spent more time away from my elder son than stay together with him. After that i got lucky to work on board as a seafarer and got our second son and it continues the trend that i have to sacrifice to work far away from them to give them what is the best for my family but much nicer now because i got a vacation just only after eight months and now i have 2 months time of vacation.

Now that in the time of pandemic and my working industry has been really affected and the fact that i did not finish my contract and was sent back home in the country and as of the moment now that I'am already staying here 5 months and counting together with my family it is the most longest time of staying here with then after a decade and every moment of each time is i treasure very much i realized that so much time i lost on to be working very far away from them, that if it not for the pandemic maybe i could not stay for a long period of time like this with them.

And as my cruise ship company has already started operations in Europe little by little and bring the crew back on board i ready my self to be called again and be back to the reality that i have to be far away from them to give them a better life that i was not born rich like anybody that do not have to be far away from their family or i did not have a good job here in our country is the fact that i have to take it all for granted being apart for them and to sacrifice my happiness to be with them every moment like this is not possible so as for this time i have to enjoy every moment that I'am with them. So i really just want to say that this pandemic not only brings all bad things it brings also a lesson for us in life that only us will understand in ourselves.

Thank you so much for lending your time on reading this article of mine let just hope and pray that everything will be fine as this pandemic will ending really soon. Keep safe every one and GOD Bless Us All!