I want her to realize how hard the situation and spoiled her daughter is!
Aside from my parents who took good care of their first grandchildren which was the daughter of my elder sister, I was the one also who nurtured, care and support my niece. Being a Tita is not easy as what you think, I will be the one who also disciplined and teaching good manners to my niece but sad to say, even how many times we teached and disciplined the daughter of my elder sister still the character and attitude was so the same as her mother.
My niece now is running 4 yrs.old this coming 23rd of April. When the mother of my niece came and visit here in our house kaninang umaga, ang laki ng ngiti niya abut tinga. Hindi ko alam kung bakit, maybe she is so happy to see her spoiled daughter. Kasama niya isa ko pang pamangkin na mag-iisang taon narin ngayong April 29.
Well, I'm just doing the household chores when she made a mess inside the house even if she already knew that the house was already organized,net and clean. I was so upset and made my day full of anger and disappointments. Alam niyo niyong katatapos niyo lang maglinis, may kalat na naman. Ang hirap kaya maglinis ng paulit-ulit.. When my elder sister asks me where is our mother, I only said that, nandoon sa kusina nahighblood sa anak mong panganay. She only smiled and told my mother without hesitation, " Ma, buntis na naman ako,hehehe" When I heard of what she spoke, I was shocked.
My mother was only did is, carry my nephew and have the conversation with my elder sister. When I listened their conversation, It was the word mark my mind that my elder sister said: " Ma, madadagdagan na naman apo mo,,,hehehe. May aalagaan ka na naman ma " How proud she was to say those words. When I glanced my mothers face, I can only say that my mother was upset and don't know what to do. I know that my mother is so tired because of my niece attitude, as early 3yrs.of age she can talked back and fought to my parents. I was not happy to see that. She can even slapped and punched the face of my mother. How rude you are like your mother, my elder sister whom I prefer to. I scolded my niece and let her realized that she was wrong.
My elder sister only did was to smile and can even say this words, yan kasi inispoiled niyo yan, yan tuloy masama yung ugali. It is time for you to suffer of my daughters attitude. It made me irritated kaya kami ang nag-away I can't stop my emotion and feelings.
Alam mo kong bakit ganyan anak mo, kasi pabaya kang ina ni kahit katiting na oras hindi mo mabigay sa anak mo kaya ngayon mga magulang natin ang naghihirap para disiplinain ang anak mo. At ngayong buntis ka na naman sana man lang marealize mo gaano kahirap ang ginawa ng mga magulang natin para lang alagaan at protektahan ang panganay mong anak. Nagpakasasa ka at nagfeeling dalaga nong iniwan mo sa amin ang panganay mong anak at ngayon kami pa sinusumbatan mo na kaya ganyan ugali ng anak mo. Kapal ng mukha mo tas mas gana pang pagsabihan ako ang walang nabigay kahit ni singko sa mga magulang natin, kung alam mo lang,,, lahat ng kita ko sa paglilinis ng koko may binibigay ako sa mga magulang natin para makatulong kahit papano at para rin masuportahan anak mo. Oo, bunsong kapatid mo lang ako but I have my rights to protect myself and to protect our parents for the hurtful thoughts you said to them. Ikaw pa tong may ganang magalit , ikaw pa nga tong laging umaasa sa mga magulang natin.
CLOSING THOUGHT
It's not easy to have a sister who is different from your attitude. Yung ayaw makinig sa mga payo dahil gusto niya siya lang ang masusunod. Hindi man lang tumanaw ng utang na loob sa mga magulang. Yung lagi na lang umaasa sa mga magulang.
Until here my fellow readers, sorry for Tagalog-English language ang ginamit ko tonight. Sakit lang po kasi sa dibdib and to tell you honestly, while making this article I can't stop my tears to fall. I hope your Saturday night is wonderful.
Sorry din po kong now na pa nakapublish ng another article. Ang hirap po kasi dito sa aming lugar, wala paring kuryente.
God bless to all of us and more powers and take care always.
Naku, it's really hard talaga. It's not easy to have a stubborn sister or brother. Like they want they are always right. In our case I tend not to argue that cause I have sister and literally she is not good. She always wanted that her thoughts and grievances are always right. I'm not tolerating that kind of attitude.