17 - 08 - 2022

Each individual has different parameters to measure the depth of happiness according to his own opinion & mindset. We claim it in different time with different scenarios and terms. We can't put the meaning of happiness equal to everyone. It is a feeling against anything which we like , need , wish most.

Yesterday my friend called me to go with him to his agricultural farm because he wants my company in traveling. I first made some argument but after he insisted a lot I agreed to go. So we traveled more then a hour in his luxurious car to reach his farm.

He is a rich person with one cotton genining factory, good enough agricultural land, cattle farm and some stock exchange brokerage business. He is my class fellow also where we were in high school and then in college together. He built a new big house recently and still not shifted there. I always thinks that he has everything, wealth, kids , business , luxurious lifestyle so he is a happy man.

During our journey we talk lot of things then suddenly I asked him that when you are going to shift in new house. He look at me and said may be "Never". I shocked and asked, why?. He says " my wife not feeling comfertable to go there". He put a cross question to me that are you happy with your wife and how you keep her pleased?

I told him that " I suffer a little in the bigning to know her attitude and behaviour. We have fight also on some issues. We go angry and didn't talk to each other for Hours. One day on the return from my business point I was standing on the road near a traffic signal waiting to go red light. Traffic will be stopped and I can cross the road. Same time a small child rush to me having fresh Jasmin flowers necklaces in hand to sell and almost in begging behaviour he requested me to buy one of them . Even I didn't want but still I buy two necklace worth of 50 PKR only and go to home. Those flowers I gave to my wife , she surprised, smiled and astonished . I saw a different happiness in her face like he got paradise.

That point I comes to know the secret of her Happiness. She didn't looking wealth, luxury. Actually she was thirsty of my attention. From that day I started Caring her , sitting , talking, playing with her. My home becomes a paradise I am with her almost 12 years of relationship but she never go angry nor made unnecessary demands and I am in peace of mind. I added " every Man could be equal in living but even woman can't be equal in living. Each woman has different secret of happiness which struck in her mind. "

I came back on same question that why your wife not ready to go for new house? He try to avoid it but then he comes to that point which I was wondering! He Said " Amjad, I am a business man and doing more then 16 hours work daily to look after every thing. I married since 11 years now and my wife never smiles loudly, never hug me with love, never argue with me. She is nice , obedient and pure eastern girl who respect he husband but I was looking a good friend in it which I never found. She always hesitate to talk me and that thing killing me from inside. My marital lifedidn't happy at all. I advised him to search the secret of her Happiness like me. May she looking your attention closely!

Conclusion:

We are searching the happiness through the metallic luxuries but it is not a formula for every one especially for women. The secret of happiness is something else for them and we should search that point to get the real happiness to any individual especially the best half.

More peaceful, happy , cooperative environment you have at home , more energetic, progressive, enthusiastic you will be at work place.

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