Men Shouldn't cry. Is it logical !!!
02-05-2022
Men born strong by nature and almighty God bless him some extra edge then woman in most parts. Almighty God put responsibility of earnings , protection , guardianship and head in family. So He alloted him bravery , strength and courage to face any kind of problems and issues.
I spent a hectic Tiring day as runs whole day to market - home - market like a football. Early morning got list to buy household things for tomorrow ( Eid Day) . That list was consist hurbs ,Vegetable , chicken , fruit , sweets , drinks and juices. So went first vegetable market then poultry and in the last comes to grocery & sweet. After 3 hours I came back to home.
Just sit a minute and another task was ready for me. Now Pico , over lock and matching buttons were in list. ( Actually my wife didn't go market due to fasting and Sumner heat ) so this burden also throw at me. It was 11.30 am when I took bike and went to tailoring market. Hot summer with temperature 43Β© and packed rush in markets made me crazy.
Another hurdle falls when electricity Tripp off mean time. You can understand what was happening to me by waiting there for it . After a hour electricity persue and I got my things complete at 3.30pm.
When came back home my aunt ( Sister of dad who came to me just yesterday to spend Eid with us ) says " Amjad , please go quickly and bring these things from jewelry shop . ( She gave her gold set for some maintenance there ) . I almost cry that phopho I am on bike from early morning and I am faded now . She politely says ,
" My son , remember my words , men never cry. They accept the challenge , accept the responsibility and always stands as guardian of the family. You are my proud my son , don't be panic by these small choars. How you will fight with world in our protection when you are almost at give up point. My son , be brave and be enough courageous to face the world".
I listened all these things carefully , start the bike again and next one hour again I was on the roads without crying. Just thinking why men can't cry ?? Men also feels pain , suffering, hurting then why not have right to cry.
I didn't have idea , may be you have some good opinion about it. What you say?
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Feeling sleepy now due to over running whole day . But still glad to help my family for wonderful cheering Eid preparation.
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It's okay to cry whether you are a man. It's not something to be ashamed or embarrassed about.