Friendship

True friends are never apart maybe in distance but never in heart.

True friendship gives us reasons to stay strong in life. Having a ebullient family is okay but one also needs a true friends to be completely happy. Some people are not even close to their families but have friends who are like families. Having a great great friendship means a lot to everyone.

As human we make friends in many ways.
I’ll mention two ways we make different friendship.

Friendship by utility

This form of friendship is a relationship where one of the two render service to the other. I mean it’s a relationship whereby there is transparent exchange of values.
Example of such friendship are Barber, doctors, fashion designers and other that render essential services.

These people ain’t exactly friends normally, but they are a necessity baseline relationship in society. The mutual value gotten from the interaction creates a situation where you both, for time being, share a common place, will get along and converse. These type of friendship are shadow at the best but create an important connection through out the community. I hope you understand this type of friendship e.g being a friend with aboki.

Friendship by pleasure

This is type of friendship in the sense of enjoyment here-and-now.
This type of friendship moves beyond mutual value, to share enjoyments in some ways or the other. You may not get anything directly from the person, but they are there with you enjoying same thing you enjoy, and so that commonality is what brings both friends together.

Example of this type of friendship is just you. Yes! You. Because we are on here with some commonality and the major common reasons we’re is for @TheRandomRewarder to reward our thoughts (articles). Another example is a friend you usually meet at the viewing center and others.

A true friendship is is one not based on utility or pleasure, but rather than mutual respect, admiration, loyalty and gratitude of the other person. This type of friendship is one of the most grow and growing over time.

Utility and pleasure forms of friendship are temporary, and any friendship built on such weak fundamentals is doomed to fall. Because they are always distance from each other except when it’s time of mutual value.

A true friendship is built on shared principles or shared values.
This is the type of friendship that becomes stronger from time to time.

I’ve been blessed with several true friends. Boys and girls that have believe in the person I was, and as well as the person I could be. Through depression, paralyze anxiety, career-jeopardizing inaction, these people never wavered.

Friendship can rescue you from death and also friendship can kill. What matters is the friendship decision you make.

maybe you choose friends who are blithe about you or the ones who are always around to support you for who you are.

Friendship, is a state of encountering affection, esteem, intimacy, loyalty, commitment and trust between two or more people. In all culture, as in all continents, friendships are important relationships throughout the life span of people.

Or have you see anyone on this earth without a friend? No! Everyone else has friends but are different. Some people might consider human with good heart as their friend while some will consider the bad ones.

Friendship is not a compulsory deed between two but it is the coming together of two or more people who choose to form friendship with each other. Friendship are one of the latest prescribed close relationships, with no formal duties or legal obligations to one another.

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