I am proud Mom
September 13, 2022
Being a mother is not an easy peasy thing, it requires a lot of effort, patience, understanding and sacrifices. Besides being a mom, you have also extra responsbilities as a wife and those responsibilities may trigger your patience especially when your partner or husband is not a family man like my partner hihi(pero medyo medyo na naman ngaun).
Most of the time, its only me and Adrielle in our house, coz my partner is working and after work he went back to his workmates for drinking session or tambay sya dun so the responsibilities of disciplining Adrielle is more of me, and there are times when I get mad at Adrielle because of her naughtiness he gets mad at me lagi ko daw pagalitan ang bata kaya daw lalong tumitigas ang ulo, but of course I am not always mad there are some instances only that whener he is there, Adrielle naughtiness is over so I get mad, and also there are times when Adrielle is so playful with him and he can't stop her she asking my help me to stop Adrielle( oh diba ako din ang magsasaway).
Thats my point of disciplining Adrielle, I know she is a kid and the naughtiness and playful is there as part of childhood, but theres a difference when your kid is somewhat afraid to you when you start to get mad for stopping them with being so much playful and naughty.
Stop for long introductions.
As what I share with my article yesterday, as Adrielle being the youngest flower girl and she behaves well makes me really proud of myself as a mom.
Before the wedding, Adrielle was being teased by her uncle that she might cry during the wedding because I am not with her, but Adrielle replied no way and she walk with me.
Then during the wedding day, I instructed her to hold her flower and walk and smile, and her uncle again tease her na iiyak na yan, but Adrielle is very firm in saying NO WAY.
As the entourage starts, and its her time to walk I just assisted her at first and let her walk alone going to her sits and there she walks well and smile with everyone and during the wedding she is very good too, and her cousin even ask to take a photo with her as she was smiling throughout the ceremony.
Then after the wedding her uncle who teases her that she will came by and said, wow very naman hindi tlaga sya umiyak and she just smile with her uncle and some people also praises her for being so cute and smart lil girl.
Then when I posted some of her photo on my facebook myday, there are some who reacts and comments about her, being a smart, very good and witty lil girl, and reading those comments makes me a proud Mom of Adrielle.
Supposedly she will not be a part of the wedding ceremony as the church is requiring 7years old and above but the parents of the bride insists that Adrielle is a smart lil girl and she will walk alone, will not cry nor have any tantrums during the wedding and yes she did it, she prove to them that she is a smart lil girl
Those comments make me feel that I raise her well, tho there were times that maybe I am being so over of disciplining her but I think it is worthy naman upon reading or hearing some positive comments from others.
It is better to start disciplining our kids at young age because their behaviour will start to develop also, and never spoil your kids because the fruits of spoiling them will make you suffer in the long run.