I'm afraid to fail... But not afraid to try...

Life may throw you hardships and problem. It may bring sadness and sorrows. It may discourage you to believe in yourself suddenly become a failure.

We all encounter with it some in their work field, in their school sometimes relationship and in many different aspects. And this is true more commonly than not, we are terrible even entertaining the idea of failing.

Many of us face to this situation it can cause us to do nothing, and therefore we can't go forward either can't go further. But if we allow our fear in our mind it will and it can destroy our progress in life,our goals and even our dreams. We're probably miss some great and wonderful opportunities along the way.

Have you ever been so afraid of failing? Something that bother you not to try it all? Or you holding and undermined your own efforts, strength time and wisdom to avoid the possibility of failure? In this article, we will examine fear of failure based on my own and others experience. What It means, what causes it and how can you surpass it to celebrate true success in work, school relationship and in our life.

Failure  is  defined  as a  lack of successor absence of success. This is a fairly general definition. It enables us to define success for ourselves so that we can determine whether or not we have succeeded. The main issue here is that most of us aren't particularly good at defining success. This could make us feel like failures when, in fact, we are the polar opposite-(Forbes.com)

Success is something you must define for yourself; no one can do it for you. Success may imply a sense of giving back to society and making a difference. It could imply a sense of accomplishment and career advancement. It may imply being able to do the things you enjoy.

Causes of Failing

1.Sometimes our dreams and our goals in life doesn't fit in our destiny, may mga bagay tayo na minimithi natin pero hindi iyon ang nasusunod. Nasasaktan tayo kasi doon lang tayo sa bagay na iyon nakatuon hindi nanatin napapansin na may iba pang pintuan.

2. .We experience failures because we don't believe in ourselves. Tayo mismo hindi naniniwala sa sarili nating kakayanan, we compare ourselves to others. We always complain, we always doubt and hesitate kasi nga iniisip natin yung outcome.

3. We all doing things in rush, nagmamadali tayo sa kakamadali natin makapunta sa dulo bigla kang nadapa, there's always a process and let's stick to that there's always step by step procedure. Matoto tayong maghintay.

4. We always want the easiest one, gusto lang lagi natin yung pa petekspeteks lang hindi na tayo gumagawa Ng ibang paraan para matuto para mag try ng ibang bagay so that if the time come na Mahirap na yung dumating sa kalagayan natin bigat na bigay na tayo kasi na sanay tayo sa madali eh we don't even go out in our comfort zone.

Iilan lamang yan sa mga causes in terms of failing

How can we overcome failure

1. Let's think about for whom we are fighting for (MOTIVATION), para kanino ba tayo lumalaban para sa mga mahal natin sa Buhay. Gawin natin silang inspirasyon para magpatuloy.

2. Always believe in yourself(Self-Determination), matoto tayong pahalagahan at mahalin Ang ating sarili, dahil kahit ano pamang kabiguan ang dumating your one self will find a solution.

3.Change of plans, paths, you must have many plans. Hindi pwedeng iisa lang ang iyong Plano maganda na 'yong may reserba ka because if you have another plan hindi ka mahihirapan mag adjust if ever na hindi man swertehen sa plan A.

4. Patience is not the ability to wait, but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting, matuto tayong maghintay we don't need to rush because life isn't a race, you'll wait for your time hindi pwepwedeng hilaw kapa tapos pipitasin na doon ka lalong masisira.

5. You should practice in systematic way, there's always a proper process. Paghandaan mo ang Bawat progress.

6.Open Mindset, Maintain an open mindset in the face of adversity. Face them with self-assurance. Instead of clinging to them, learn from them. It’s a great modality to see yourself powerful and to visualize how far you have come and are going to go. It all depends on the mindset

Maybe you will notice I put more solution than causes it is because who practice multiple strategies and share solutions become more flexible and efficient in problem solving, and are more likely to see options when approaching a problem.

Never take your life for granted. Focus on all the positive and embrace it. Ignore the negative and be thankful for every single day. Let us not be bitter about the past about our failure, but let us keep our eyes firmly on the future on the brightest side.You can change your past, simply by changing your underlying perception about your past.Your past can only help you if you learn the lesson and move forward.

Let us not be bitter about the past, but let us keep our eyes firmly on the future.You can change your past, simply by changing your underlying perception about your past.Your past can only help you if you learn the lesson and move forward.

Random Thought

Nagiging failure lang naman ang isang bagay kapag sinukuan mo ‘yung mga pangarap mo. Kaya dapat tuloy lang, laban lang! And always pray kasi at the end of the day, it is always God’s will and timing that will prevail 💖