Hello! everyone

Privious two year was with full of disaster and tears. All world was facing covid-19 outbreak. We all passed through a tough tenure of life. We faced a lot of challenges during lockdown. All world was completely rushed into a yelling phase.

But to Stay healthy and happy is first priority of everyone. Live happily and satisfied is necessary for our health. It also make out immune system more strong.

We always relate thing with our happiness. We compare happiness with materialistic things. Where you see materialistic growth is high but people are still unhappy. We have a lot of resources but we are not happy why?? How to stay happy?? Lets discuss it first.

Mind set problem

We have mind set problem. The life you got have you accepted it?? with mind and heart. We always find mistakes and focused on negative expect of life. We dont look at blessings but we only focus on loss. We should focus on positive expects too. That is necessary to keep balance in life.

Grief and happiness relationship

Grief and happiness are closely related to eachother. When you have happy life sure you would also have sad life too. Happiness and giref are together in everyone life.

This life is never can be free of problems. Where you have happiness you would find also grief there too. In every field of life, we have to face many problems.

If you are living in this world i am sure you have to face many problems. In grave life,when you die than happiness and grief also die with you. Because you are not alive anymore. In grave life no bills problem, taxes not and no justice etc.

A alive man live with problem mark my words! If he have to live happy life definitely he have to face with many problems and sorenesses.

What you have in normal life, is need of high quality life. They need peace in life, happiness which you have but upper class dont have. If you have a lot of resources but still you are unhappy than i am sure you have some problems in your life and you have to look for them. How you can find them and tackle them i clear it.

Rule No.1

Accept the life

If you want to live happy life you have to accept all life challenges of current life. Complain, unthankful and grumble all of these are enemies of happy life.

We always do this mistake,we do not accept life challenges and started grumbling. Untill we do not accept that challenge and sorenesses, we cannot live or enjoy happily life.

Accept the challenges with this believe that good days would come and you would be happy one day. When you accept challenges with this believe than you would see the silent results. Sometime we get result of bad days than we realize that was good for you. All of us faced this situation. When we pass though bad days we do grumble but after get out of them than we realize that, this bad phase was infavour of you.

When you accept all challenges and accept your life and realize that, this is your life no one can help you, just you have to do something to make your life pleasent. Than you would see you started living happy automatically. Because you accepted it with mind and heart.

Some challenges are those come from disaster. You have no another choice to accept it. You have to accept it with mind. For example unfortunately you lost hand,leg and eyesight. Here you have no another option. You have to accept it immediately this is from god and move on. If you wouldn't accept it, you would never see your life pleasent.

I would like to menssion this little story. Once was king he gad a loyal and very loving servent. Once king give a fruit to everyone was in his meeting to eat it. He also said that after eating you have to get me remarks or reviews about this fruit. Everyone tried but failed because fruit was tasteless. But that his loyal servent eaten fruit and said this is very tasty. King and all other people was shocked what is this everyone staying this is tasteless and you are saying this tasty. What is logic? Servent replied that we eaten all life tasty fruit from king home. If we eat this untasty fruit once this would not be a big deal.

Same like this story we should accept sometimes sorenesses. Because we have a lot of blessings of god. So if we get one disaster so we should accept it.

Rule No.2

Gratitude = happiness

Gratitude is equal to happiness. We all of us have gratitude in our lives if want to live happy life. That is truth gratitude link us with happy life.

Sometime we dont count blessing and always focus or count disasters. So we don't say thanks on blessing. This eat our serenity and happiness.

When we have gratitude in our life, we easily deal with challenges. Your name, respect, status and popularity is your blessings. We should always saying thanks to almighty for endless blessing.

When you go to your bed reflect yourself. Think about today blessing. What you did . What you gained? And what you lost. Count blessing more and more. Give time to yourself and count blessing and say thank you.

To say thank you is very common in developed countries like germany,france,UK,USA and Australia etc. By staying thanks this make you proud and feel serenity. Also god become happy by doing this your little act. Say thanks is best way to thanks blessing.

Sometime your blessings is due to some person. Maybe because of his kind you are living happy life. Because of his help you getting good to eat so you have to thankful to people, who are helping you in different ways. When we born we need care done by parents, when we are young we need family, when we are old we need support. Someone helping you in all phase of your life so never forget to say thanks to them.

Rule No. 3

Guiltfree life

When we live guiltfree life we live happily. Guiltfree life is blessing indeed.

When we realize our fault and say sorry this is best way to enjoy guiltfree life. If you make mistakes in life, but yiu realize that this was bad i could not do that. You should say sorry and pray for your guilt.

Guilt is like a knife can kill your serenity and happiness from your life. So make sure you are doing great things . But whenever you realize this was bad say sorry.

By saying sorry the rue of past do not grow with you and you live happy life.

Rule No. 4

Do charity

Sharing give happiness. Have you ever thought that richest people do more charities why? Actually we get busy in life enough we cannot pay heed on surrounding people. That they need your help.

To provide good life style, good health, clothes,food,jobs and good education to other deserving people by doing charity. This make your life pleasent. You feel unknown happiness in your personality.

To provide food to birds is also a type of charity. When you spend your money to server animals you get more happiness. I was make small piece of my bread and send it to birds. This give me serenity and happiness overall.

To server humanity is also good habbit and if you are doing it good and well. If not than do it if you have unpleasant life. You would see the results of it.

Rule No. 5

Respect relationship

To give respect to closely people than give you another kind of happiness. Keep in touch with closely people make you feel better.

Actually in competition of this mobed life,we forget the relative and family. We are away from parents, siblings, friends and relatives. This make us apart from close people or important people of our life.

Parents who worked hard to raised you up. You should respect them and touch with them. Give time and server them. Than your siblings you got a lot care and love from them. You have also take care of them. Your friends have great impect on your lives so respect them. Relative are your blood relationship so keep in touch and deserve love and care too.

If you are married than take care of your family. Give more love and time. Respect your wife/husband and listen to her/him.

If you apart from them then find the mistake and remove all misunderstanding and say sorry of you are wrong. This would give you more happiness.

Thanks for reading :)