I'm Working on it.. Hi im new here and i hope that im welcome in this community. Im 33yrs. single mom i have four children and just got seperated from my long time partner just last December. I don't know what the real family life was all about , my parents also got seperated when i was still a teenage girl and didn't took life seriously. The father of my kids courted me for 3months thru texts (this was wayback 2006 using a keypad Nokia cellphone ) that time i was really a hopeless romantic country girl who strongly believed that if you love someone there is nothing you won't do just to make them happy .. ( i know it's the typical hopeless romantic mindset ) finally after exchanging texts messages he decided to visit my house to finally meet me. I was excited, really felt inlove that time. Luckily my mom approved and we decided to make it official , we dated and in just 3months i got pregnant, that's when everything started to change , he stopped working and started going out with his friends coming home late and drunk. We can't stand on our own that time and my mom let us stay in her house at first my mom just seemed cool about it. Days turned to months and months turned to years . Finally, my mom can't keep it cool anymore asked me what's our plan or my partner's plan our daughter was already 2yrs. old that time and he still haven't change with his drinking habit . I decided to talk to him but everytime i tried he just walked out. And the hopeless romantic me let's him do that for couple of years hoping that one day he will finally change (he will right? if he loves us? ) and finally last year when i can't take it anymore i burst out, i was expecting that he will acknowledge his mistakes and finally will fullfill his duties as a father for my four kids, but i guess i was expecting too much the next day he moved out from our house with out saying a word to me and moved in to his parents house. It was a shock to me i was not really expecting that he will let go of us so easily i thought he was gonna try talk it out just like any normal mature couple will do . Too much for my expectation , i guess. Please don't judge me.

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@saudz posted 3 years ago

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Hello there. Welcome to read.cash I am the moderator of introduce yourself community. That is one tough decision that you have made there and this is one good story for an introduction of yourself but then the grammar error is too much.

You can try and use Grammarly to help you write better in English and I suggest that you use the full articles function rather than a short post to write.

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3 years ago

Can i just remove this and create a new one i just realized it's a long article..

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3 years ago

It is yours to decide. I will be looking forward to your next introduction article though it might take a while for me to reach you again. Feel free to tag me if you want to.

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3 years ago

Yes thanx!

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3 years ago