Anyone who has gone through the agony of losing someone he/she loves so much will still wish against all odds to have that love back again. But sometimes, a lost love is a love gone forever. No amount of hope can bring back to life a relationship that just died a natural death.

Set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly. Remember, it may rain for 40 days and 40 nights, but still it will not rain forever. One day, the pouring will stop and there will be plenty of branches where you can find rest. One of these is where you will build your nest and start over again. It's never too late. You may find love and lose it but, When Love dies, you never die with it".

You cannot be a redeemer all your life. The perfect way to test a relationship is through the test of fire. You cannot be a sober with your mistake forever. We all fall and make wrong decisions, but our blunders are not meant to bury us deep in misery but to teach us the valued lessons of life. Loving is always a learning process.. with love we learn how to Care and Sacrifice. We learn to Share and Reach out. We learn to become Unselfish and give more than we can. Then, when everything doesn't end well, we learn how it feels like to fall and get hurt.

But learning doesn't have to end there. After our fall, we strive to get back on our feet and move on. This is where we learn that Life doesn't end where our heartaches begin. There's no future for a relationship of Lies and Selfishness. It's true, there is life in love. But, there can still be life even after losing love if you leave the past behind and let your heart heal and give you the chance to find yourself again.

The success of a relationship lies not only in the beauty of its beginning but in its consistency. Make a choice, not on impulse but a decision based on a healthy balance of mind and heart. Let us always remember that... "Happiness is not a matter of Destiny but a matter of Choice".

You don't have to forget someone you love, what you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. You would be better off giving that dedication and love to someone more deserving.